girls are always saying that they are sexually attracted to personality traits, but they always seem to be talking about what they look for in a relationship. i really don'tthink girls are SEXUALLY attracted to a sense of humor or respect. A guy in his 60s can make jokes, but does that mean girls in their 20s will be all over him? a high school boy can also, but does that mean adult women will be all over him? to me, it seems like girls are attracted to popularity and talent, not personality, but only if the guy is not ugly by their standards. and they are always attracted to a good looking guy. how exactly does it work? what decides whether a guy will be sexually attractive to a girl or not.
2007-03-11 05:50:14 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
from what i can tell, if a guy's ugly, he won't be attractive. if he's good looking, he will. if he's ok looking, he'll be attractive if he's popular or talented, if not then no. am i right?
2007-03-11 06:00:17 · update #1
well it really depends on the girl's personality because most girls are into looks and if your in a relationship just for loks it wont workout and shell definitely cheat. same with the guy if hes only attracted to looks. you need to find yourself a girl who is attracted to everything about you. your walk, your cologne, the way you talk, and remembers everything you say. and of course thinks your attractive. sexual attraction with girls doesnt always have to be about looks. most of the time it is. its rare when you find a girl who is sexually attracted to absolutely everything. if you find a girl who is attracted to everything about you, then you wont even have to do anything to turn her on and if you kiss her shell go nuts. <3 good luck <3
2007-03-11 06:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by truesayokay9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the thing, everyone finds different things attractive. One person might find a guy incredibly sexy, while another girl can look at him and might not see what she sees in him at all.
I think a lot of initial sexual attractions are based on appearance. You walk past someone at the mall you find incredibly gorgeous, they catch your eye....you're sexually attracted to that person.
But to MAINTAIN that attraction, I think it's a lot more than physical. I've been dating someone for over 3 years now. He doesnt have washboard abs, muscles, and the pretty boy face. When I first met him, I wasn't really attracted to him at all. He's a normal, average guy. But as I got to know him, wow-- I couldn't get enough. He's not afraid to just be himself. And I find that incredibly sexy.
I guess there are no set qualities that can determine whether or not someone will be sexually attracted to you. Everyone is different and has their own "types". Just be yourself, there's bound to be a girl out there that will think you are exactly what she's been looking for.
2007-03-11 06:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by autumn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about the first chemistry or connection. Of cause many grils say they want a guy who is good looking has talent n many more traits. But in reality when a girl meets a guy it's just the feeling we get(you can it women inituition). Definitely humour n personality helps but it's the connection n compatibily that counts. So no matter you are average joe a girl may still find u sexually attractive in so many ways.
2007-03-11 05:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by lemonade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I'm sexually attracted to guys who are good looking and if a sexually attractive guy has an unattractive personality he becomes less sexually attractive, but if a sexually attractive guy has positive personality traits, those traits enhance his sexual attractiveness
2007-03-11 05:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by Cybele 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your question was kind of confusing but neways personality is what attracts girls but of course they look at you first but an ugly guy can become much cuter just by their personality its kind of hard to explain, for me i dont date just one type of guy but i do like the book smart funny guys more than anything a guy who can make a gurl laugh is worth her time, the more shes laughing the more she smiling so thats good but its different for every girl there are many things girls look for in guys, looks, brains, body, height, type of clothing style, education, career but most girls are just happy with a guy who will treat her good and love her for her
2007-03-11 05:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im a girl and i am attracted to guys because of their personality. if i start likeing them a lot then i could be sexualy attracted to them even if everyone else thinks they are ugly
2007-03-11 05:58:14 · answer #6 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
John Bec is so right on. It's all about that confident guy... the one who is in control but doesn't brag about it. The guy who is smooth and doesn't need to be controlling in a relationship. It's that guy who is so comfortable in his own skin that " the girls come running as fast as they can..... ZZ Top"
2007-03-11 05:59:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I'm attracted to guys that have the looks & personality but if he's okay looking & He's sweet & charming, that's okay too.
2007-03-11 05:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by lalala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i think good looking is one thing, another is the way he handle situation and talking too makes a lots of sense.
2007-03-11 05:57:43 · answer #9 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol i've got faith like answering this.... First i'm a guy, 2nd, i'm no longer into guy. ok.... He seem conventional, yet seem at him, effective tooth + good pores and skin (greater effective than me a minimum of), and that heat/sort smile... the only down edge is his hair... i think of his bro merely think of that he could seem or act somewhat "no longer so manly"? merely replace hair form... i'm a guy, and that i do no longer think of he's grotesque.
2016-10-01 22:46:08 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋