Please help me,i've been friends with this guy,about 1 yrs plus,he was e first to wish me happy birthday online,and me being friendly,replied n soon we were friends.He regards me as his best friends and call me at nights to chat.I nvr thought we wud become dis close as i tot i only wan to be normal frens wif him,not more.I dont regard him as my best friend however,he knew that but its ok wif him.but,how long can i pretend to like being too close with him??..whenever he wants to meet(we seldom meet),i really have a heavy heart of meeting him but to please him,i do it..sometimes i dont even pick up his calls n tell him sorry e next day n just say that ive been sleeping or whatsoever..im mean,i fake it..god..tell me wat to do?i cant tell him the truth,we've been friends for over a year!..
2007-03-11 05:39:32 · 7 answers · asked by rose etoiles 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it's hard. Just say that your bz, bz, bz. He'll get your point at the end.
2007-03-11 05:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to play politics. This world is full of people,
all relationships do not endure the test of time. Perhaps the larger problem is we do not know how to let go of a thing. Breaking off a relation can feel like a loss.
Be young in heart, strong in mind, pick some choice words talk it over with your true best buddy(that maybe Mom and or Dad) then do what is the best for you. All shoes don't fit and all people don't either.
2007-03-11 13:06:49 · answer #2 · answered by xman77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a bad situation. I think that you should have been honest with him in the first place and none of this would have happened. If you continue to pretend to be close friends with him, what are you going to do when he asks you to marry him? Just be honest with him and tell him that you dont want him to expect to be more than just friends. It may hurt his feelings in the beginning, but you cant keep lying to him and yourself about being happy. If he truly is your friend, then he will understand! Good Luck
2007-03-11 12:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by Sexxi~Hot~Mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not pretend anymore. Wasting time. Keep avoiding him. And make excuse. Pretending i am not good at. Leave him be right now. You do not have to tell him nothing. Forget about he will get the message. You needed him for at that time. Tell him u have a bf now and he wants you to stop talking to other man.
2007-03-11 12:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your being fake, stop leading him on and tell him how you really feel about him. if you can't say it than write him if thats easier for you. but, you continue to play this role is misleading and thats going to hurt him because you've faked a role for so long.
2007-03-11 12:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by Blake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i was in 3rd grade I had a friend who absolutly hated me but she didn't tell me, i upset me when she told me 2 yrs later
2007-03-11 12:43:35 · answer #6 · answered by yeahh_buddy23231 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you v given him the signal so far , so it is your responsibility. I guess you d better tell him as it is, he seems to be nice just tell or text him whats going on in you and your discomfort , he will understand.
just tell him
2007-03-11 12:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋