Whats the best way to pull a guy?

Question

Im really shy and would never personaly walk up to a guy and start chatting to him. What body language lets a guy know your interested and he can come over and chat? What body language is off-putting? and do guys prefer a girl to walk up to them and make the first move or do they like to do the chasing? Thnx to anyone who answers

btw im a teen

Answer 1

how about acting yourself. If you are just yourself, you'll attract the right guy for you. Or maybe some weirdo who analyzes your every move. Just be yourself-- trust me.

Answer 2

It always depends on the guy. Some guys (including myself) like girls who will walk up and tell me that they are interested. Some guys only like girls who will let them do the approaching. There's is not sure fire way make everybody happy. You have to know the guy. The thing to do though is to go with what you feel. If you are attracted to a guy, why would you sit back and wait for him to make the first move? What if he doesn't do it? Then you just let him get away. As far as the body language thing, I think that the best body language is all about being in tune with the person that you are talking to. That would mean looking him at him when he is talking to you as well as when you are talking to him, smiling when you here something that is interesting, looking alive when you are with him. Along with that, physical contact is always a good thing and sitting close to him is also a positive sign.
You should try these things, but also let him know how you feel about him. You don't have anything to lose. Good Luck!

Answer 3

This answer is important if u want to bag urself a guy. First thing if u like someone and u see him, make eyecontact and keep it going for a while maybe this will start the guy off and comes over to u and starts chatting. The body language u have to show is confidence and independent thats what guys like in a girl.Dont look down on the floor all the time when u see that he is looking at you. And dont chase after the guy let him chase after you (play it hard to get) but not toooooo hard

Answer 4

From a guy's point of view, if a girl likes you it is nice when they occasionally look at you and smile. This is a subtle but effective way of saying 'I like the look of you' and shows interest.

If the guy likes you in return, that's his cue for him to hopefully come over and take it from there. But if not, remember a lot of us are as shy as you, because rejection is scary and there are a lot of unforgiving females out there.

What's off-putting is dancing with loads of other guys (trying to make us jealous and think you are desirable). If a girl does that (even if she is trying to impress me), I walk away. Can't be doing with all that.

Guys love it when girls approach. Seriously. Normally it's US that have to do all that stuff, so believe me when a girl does it its good cos it saves us doing it, feeds the ego and looks good in front of friends too so it really is appreciated!!

You girls don't realise how lucky you are. If you are pretty all you have to do is just stand still in a club and several guys will approach sooner or later, and you can pick and choose as you like and reject mercilessly the ones you don't like.

Its not so easy for us guys - so believe me when I say we like being approached. Especially if you're hot! ;)

Answer 5

a boy whos interested will look into your eyes a couple of times,and probably look you up and down-a guy of similar looks and age would love to be approached first-as many are shy of approaching girls-a guys body language may also become more alert when he sees a female he likes.Its a false idea that men love doing all the chasing.

Answer 6

unless you want a guy who is only interested in what's under your short skirt... don't bother with any of that. Most guys are just as shy as you probably are... just try to be calm and just say Hi, I'm (insert name here) and he at least will have to say hi back and then you're introduced. Also, you could get a mutual friend to introduce you to someone they know. You shouldn't go out expecting to find a boyfriend right away. Just be friendly and yourself and eventually maybe that guy who you're friends with will turn into a romance.

Answer 7

There's nothing more exhilarating than a woman coming and talking to you - generically, it is the other way round. Honestly, females demanded equality, but you still have much sexual power, so basically, you can call the shots.

My advice - if you like the look of a guy, go up to him and tell him you like him. If he likes you back, he will almost definitely let you know.

Answer 8

be yourself and if he really likes you for you then he might be the person that God has for you, but don't try to be something or someone that you are not, for anyone

depends on the guy, but most like to be the one to chase..it lets them feel that they are in control

others like the girl to chase, due to it flattering their ego but those are usually not the type of guy you would want anyhow

be a lady and let him do the chasing, otherwise it can make you appear lonely and desperate for a man..I hope this helps

most of all pray for a husband, if that is what you want, God will honor your request and give that to you

Answer 9

(before you even start meeting boys, make a list of what you're looking for in a guy. besides looks and personality. respectful? honest? polite? certain interest, beliefs, or morals? no one may make every "qualification", so what are you willing to compromise on?)
okay:
smile! smile! smile! make eye contact and smile!!
when he comes over, be yourself, even thought its hard. if you like him, you don't need to say "i like you" in words. instead say it with body language: lean towards him a bit, laugh and smile, play with your hair, gently touch his arm... he'll get it and it will be way less awkward than blurting out "i like you"
a frown is probably most off- putting. people are naturally attracted to happy people.
when it comes to who gets to make the first move, it can go either way. go with what your comfortable with! if going up to makes you feel dizzy, you can look more "together" if you let him come over to you. but if your heart's set on talking to someone, go over and say hi.
really, chasing vs. you making the first move depends from guy to guy. you can't be expected to know which they prefer so do what makes YOU comfortable!
make sure you remember your common sense!! follow your instinct. if you sense trouble, get out ASAP! never compromise your beliefs and morals just to impress some guy! its way more impressive if you stick to your guns and have enough confidence and self respect!

here are some websites for even more info:

try this quiz to see if you're "sending the right vibe"
http://www.channelone.com/life/2002/03/02/crushsignals/

here are physical signs someone likes you:
http://www.sixwise.com/newsletters/05/06/29/the_top_six_signs_that_someone_is_physically_attracted_to_you.htm

tips for talking to guys:
http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/crushtalk.html

if you're looking for a long term thing, here are some ideas:
http://love.ivillage.com/lnsunderstandmen/whathewants/0,,q09q,00.html

Answer 10

pretend you know what you are doing when you walk into a room.
imagine you own the place.

you need to look confident (even if your not), so walk with your shoulders back, head up (so he can see your face) chest out and wear heels even if you are wearing trousers coz they make your *** look better.

smile and laugh at his jokes and when your are talking to a guy you like touch his elbow quickley a few times during the converstaion.

dunno why but things like this help.

Answer 11

Make the first move! Don't be so shy. What's the worst that could happen?

A "come here" gesture w/ the finger would do it though, lol. Or best yet, a smile!