can you handle the truth?

Question

best answer will go to the person who can give at least 3 pieces of evidence that they can handle the truth or not handle the truth, like examples that demonstrate how you deal with the truth.

Answer 1

*wow this is actually a good ? !

I feel that its not just about handling the truth but what it is that the truth holds or tells you & makes you do or feel a certain way

I have personally been through so much in my life that having to handle the truth has made me stronger...

*When I was about 6 or 7 years.old. I saw my mother kissing another man that was not my father a store that her and I where shopping when I asked "mom, what about dad?" she replied "look your real father is dead"
I remember I ran and hid through some clothes different pictures started running through my head I cried for what seemed like for ever until I was found...never have I felt such pain and anger,thats how I handled the truth when I found out about the man I thought was my father wasnt and that my real dad was gone...

*One day as me & my boyfriend sat down I asked him to tell me the truth about rumers I had heard and that I would not get upset if he told me the truth but when he did tell me the truth about how he had been with someone else I lost it ! I was crying and angry but then I was ok I wanted to know details and facts all of a sudden its like I became a reporter.I was no longer mad but actually curios and wanting to know things like 'who,where,when;why? weird huh

*I have kids and with kids I believe you go through it all,my child was laying on the couch one day and started complaining the his legs hurt the next thing I know,we where calling the ambulance my child couldnt move his legs at the hospital the doc.s told me that he had some problems with his knees I asked the doc.s not to sugar coat anything then he told me how my son may not recover and had a disease where the liquid in your knees freeze and wont be able to walk ...in that sec.the truth made me strong for my child who was in utter pain asking me what was wrong as the doc.s where all around... my heart wanting to stop and in that moment I knew that God was the one making me this strong because there was no way I could handle this on my own.Thank God after 2 months of doctors- meds- fears-tears-and many prayers our child was o.k. and well enough to start walking again, the truth made me realize that it wasnt about me that day.

*So I hope that my trials of handling the truth have answerd your question.....*

Answer 2

Well do you want to really know, and for what reason are you asking.
Would like to here why or how from my side?
The truth is ...
Handling is...
Nothing can help a person who has to deal with comments, accusations toward them...
Even the smallest things can get to a person, you know the truth and you can handle it.
It is built into your DNA.
Take a deep breath and look up.
The real truth is life is icky, so just believe in the lord go upon your and because no one can tell you the truth that should bother you or hurt you. That is a fact, when you stand before God, you will know the truth, keep a true heart. and you will be fine.

Answer 3

I can handle the truth only because I have learned to except everything and expect nothing. This has helped me to think out my questions before I ask them... If I have doubt in "handling" the answer I might receive... then usually I won't ask it. The truth will always come out eventually anyway. lucky for me I have patience. There's nothing about the truth that we should fear. The truth will only help us along our way, we learn from the truth and we grow to be honest...Not such a bad thing now is it?

Answer 4

Yes, I can handle the truth. In fact I welcome the truth! I handle things the best way I can, without to much stressing. Some examples are:

1) My ex friend sleeps around...a lot. I knew her reputation was getting to be really bad around town. I didn't worry about how it'd make me look to hang out with her, I still was a good friend to her.

2) This same girl after meeting a guy at a club one night, took him home ( her house ) and slept with him. According to her that was her new boyfriend. Needless to say that didn't last very long. I hope her through yet another break up, even though people were telling me to just cut my loses. One night she calls me and like the friend I am, I go to her house asap. Turns out she's been given an STD, from the guy from the club. Excepting the truth of the situation I should have ran for the hills. But I didn't, I figured that was when she needed me the most and I continued to be a friend to her. I even offered to pay for half of her perscription because she didn't have the money.

3) My ex boyfriend of 4 years and I have always tried to manage our long distance relationship. I figured he was cheating on me, but couldn't prove it ( do you see where I'm going with this? ) . Long story short, I find out he's been hanging with my ex friend. I have no proof he's slept with her, but everybody sleeps with her. I was pissed when I found out because I gave them my time when they didn't deserve it. On the other hand, they were both people I had in my life that shouldn't ahve been there. I'm glad I found that out! Now I laugh to myself at the thought of the both of them at the clinic!

Answer 5

No. Unless the truth makes us feel good about ourselves. But even before we learn it, it's more common to human nature to deny even wanting to know, because that includes taking the risk of that truth being something that might break us at the knees. Sometimes you have to rebuild what you are, just because someone was kind enough to tell you something you "need" to hear. I dont think any bit of knowledge should be worth the sacrafice of how far you've come in life.

Answer 6

If i dont like the truth i create my own and make it happen so i can always handle the truth but can u?

Answer 7

Yes, but it is hard. We learn from our mistakes. I can not give you any evidence because even if I did how are you to know the evidence is true. Guess I'm not getting the 10 points. Now I don't feel bad, but do you really know I don't feel bad. Of course not, so how can anyone give you evidence.

Answer 8

i handle the truth well. if i look awfull i would like to be told so. if some one was cheating i would hope that they or some one would let me know. and if my choices i was making were terable or harmfull then that another reason to want to hear the truth. i absorbe all the info and decide what may need to be done about it............

Answer 9

i might decide to think of, i could cope with the fact, as I do want human beings to be ahead and hassle-free with me. whether for me that is how human beings supply the fact some do it o.k. some do in basic terms it in a fashion this is merciless.

Answer 10

I would haved denied it,would try to pin it on someone else or jus admit it (if there was enough evidence)that is that i had no choice but to admit it.