NAGAMOHAN PALAKURTHY
2007-03-11 05:18:31 · 10 answers · asked by mohan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
any one who cares about you should wish you well ness
2007-03-11 05:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by stunna3m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello nagamohan
as u say friends are the true well wishers. i agree it is true in ur case, but not with all, in my case family is the true well wisher. there might be people i am sure for whom relatives are the best well wishers. so it differs from persont o person. as it is said aptly in india that not all five fingers are the same right. so not all friends r true well wishers. well wishers can be in any form of relation to us as long as they r gud well wishers. we r happy.
i wish that ur family adn relatives should also become truw ell wishers for u. u will have a great life if so happens. u will have good people around u.
2007-03-11 05:50:07 · answer #2 · answered by slv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's our friends who are our well wishers because your friends would want the best for you just as your parents. You may be more close to your friends than family relatives. Then, how can your family relatives know what is best for you and what is not. There are circumstances in which both family relatives and friends are your well wishers. It just depends who are closer too. Family, Friends, or Both.
2007-03-11 05:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by riri4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents are our best well wishers.
About realatives and friends, following things come into consideration:
1> Friends can walk of, relatives cannot;
2> Friends know you better than your relatives;
3> Both friends and relatives may or may not help you out;
4> Realatives would be the first one to criticize when you go wrong, friends normally won't;
5> Since we choose friends, we select people of our own type. hence you are not able to make much improvements on your flaws. We require people with different perspectives around us so that we can judge ourselves well. Like for example, you and your friends smoke. Most of them won't ask you to quit smoking. However your relative definitely would;
6> A friend would lend you money to spend on you gf, to party, to smoke, etc. Things which you like but are not good for you.
In short, we require friends to enjoy and relatives to maintain our values. People wrongly assume their liberty for their values. Freedom means everything to them; specially youngsters; but not career, responsibilities, morals, etc. If you can choose out really good friends, they are better well wishers. But if you are not wise enough to make the selection, they would be the one playing important role in spoiling your future.
All the best...
:-)
2007-03-11 11:39:25 · answer #4 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who else thanparents can be well wisher. But they are more than relations. If we leave them, why both friends and relatives cannot be well wishers
2007-03-13 21:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by RAGHAVAN N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
family or friend
two are well wisher but have some different
family is our bloodhood
so they help us directly or indirectly
up to dead and also after death
friend not bloodhood
they help but not all
if u have more friends now
after five yrs
it become limited
then up to last how much
but relation not like that
if we have good contact
they become large of members
to help u
any have be good to all
lord help all
2007-03-11 06:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by fervej 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends but i think family and specially parents r our well wisher as they have given us birth so they wuld alwys wish good for us and as far as friend are concerened it depends on ur friend as some r very lucky to ahve true friends and for me i m lucky as i have good family and also very good friends.
2007-03-11 10:42:40 · answer #7 · answered by simran 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The most unpredictable being on earth is human being. We can not predict how he behave or act at certain time. Wellwishers at certain point time can be badwisheres at certain other point. Nothing can be predicted
2007-03-14 19:45:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my relatives are too busy competing with me over every little thing that they would neve wish me well....so my friends are the ones who wish me well and support all my endeavors. And I CHOSE those people...unlike family that you are stuck with.
2007-03-11 12:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by j05gemini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both are, if you know how to handle them at their limits.
2007-03-12 19:22:01 · answer #10 · answered by NQS 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋