weve been dating for a little over a year and we started out like freaking rabbits like three times a night and about 4 months ago we just stopped, like MAYBE once a week sometimes two nights ina row and i get excited but then it doesnt happen for another two weeks, and we both ***** about it, i mean we both want sex i just dont know what the problem is?!
2007-03-11 04:55:10 · 23 answers · asked by may 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You both want sex. True.
Do you want it from each other? 77% of all marriages are sexless. 90% of men cheat on their wives. All man are dogs.
Check his wallet for condoms. Then decide whether to be happy or sad if he is having safe sex with another woman.
2007-03-11 05:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by James S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like one and/or both of you got a little bored of the routine.
I think you should spark it up and show each other that it's not all about sex. Sex is just a final touch to a relationship, but not the basis.
Show him what true love is.
Good luck.
2007-03-11 12:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious that you two were just reacting to your primal instincts and having sex. As human beings we are suppose to be above this animal instinct and develop a relationship with the person first and have a commitment before jumping in the hay. Admit to each other it was just lust and move on, hopefully wiser.
2007-03-11 12:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i would think what happened to you is what happens to most peolpe that have been together along time. you both just got bored with each other. you need to spice it up some how. my wife and i have a great sex life. we are always trying different things. change things around for yourselves and see if that helps out. i wish you the best in your relastionship.
2007-03-11 12:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by airbguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he got a conscience seeing you arent married?Nah, doubt it.Sounds like he has either lost intrest , doing some other gal, turning gay, or has a health problem.You need to get married then worry about the sex.The best way to find out what the problem is though is to ask HIM, not us.
2007-03-11 12:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first off you said that you've been having sex alot with him and to tell you the truth SEX isn't everything as said below...Basically he's probaly feeling the side effect's of to much sex now...and if you felt the same way you'd probaly know..Sex can cause very bad side effect's with peoples emotions...
2007-03-11 12:01:22 · answer #6 · answered by ЉЋҖҹЂﻵﻸשּׂ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you over dosed the poor fella.. It seems like you got caught up in a routine and routines get boring after awhile..You should try and spice it up a bit send naked pics to him on his phone .
2007-03-11 12:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by D.Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are bored with the way you do it,, buy some sexy lingerie, do it in different positions, in different places,get up on the counter and tell him to take you from front or behind, kitchen table is always fun,,, etc.
use your imagination, chocolate syrup, babyoil ( make sure you put plastic down so you dont ruin your mattress ) etc.
2007-03-11 11:59:31 · answer #8 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Tell him what you want, if things don't change in the direction you want them to; move on. You're dating not married and no marrying him won't help if you are not happy.
2007-03-11 12:40:19 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's been a year hopping like rabbits,i sure you have done every position.maybe add a third or buy some toys.
2007-03-11 12:02:28 · answer #10 · answered by CHICKIE593 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋