why are boys such players?
most of my boyfriends turned out to be player.
i ask him and he can deny it wit a strait face as if i was born yesterday.
i hate it, he doesnt realise how much he hurts me i tell him that hes hurting me but he just says am not like other guys
then i talk 2 some girl and find out that he says exacly the same ting to her.
pleasy guys can u answer this?
why do you have such a need 2 play girls and cant just stick 2 1 girl who loves you wit all her heart..dont you hate hurting the girl?
2007-03-11 04:30:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok heres someting else
after i dump the guy i asked him do you even care bout how i feel and (most of them) say no its all about the sex and i did all thatbecause you wouldnt do it wit me
dats hurtful because all that guy wanted from me was sex and i didnt do it wit him so he played me
2007-03-11 04:56:07 · update #1
Usually guys who are "players" are guys who haven't found "that girl" who will put such a GRAB on their HEART they won't wanna even LOOK at another girl. And as long as girls allow the players to play, they will keep playing.
2007-03-11 04:35:28 · answer #1 · answered by Lala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write me privately, and I will give you the defenses you need.
But here's a short answer: Guys want to make SURE they've got THE ONE. We want to comitt, but there's always the What If? What if she's not the one? What if there's someone ALOT better? What if I can't stand her in six months? It's a learning process for both genders.
I myself lost the girl I should have married. The only one I ever loved. And now it's worse - she's changed so much that even if she came back that I wouldn't be compatible with her. It sucks, and I mourn her more than if she were dead, even years later. Only in the past few months have I gone a few days here and there and not thought of her.
The hunt makes us feel good. It makes us feel proficient in something. There's nothing better than stealing a doctor and gold-medal snowboarder's girl away - because no matter what we do, if we can do this better than anything else, we're good. It's a shame - I finally understand why marriages were arranged or why people got married so young - think of all the wasted energy in persuit of women? We wonder why no children compose at the age of 5 like Beethoven. Why no one is all that interested in their education - that's why, we've already got something we're working on.
Anyway, write me, and I will give you insights that take years to get. It also sounds like you're young, high-school or middle school - after high school things change, it'll get better.
Now, before I betray the secrets of my gender, when you write to me, I will ask you a question - it's not a difficult one or raunchy - IF you can answer it, I will drop more knowledge on you about this than you may be able to handle. If you fail...I'll probably help you anyway. You seem legitamately concerned. But I want to know something of your character and intelligence to be sure you will use this knowledge ethically.
2007-03-11 04:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting an Autographed poster might be hard, but if you can do it and aren't sure who his favorite player is maybe you can get a team picture poster and get the captains and a few players signatures on it as well. Monopoly might be kinda a crappy gift its more of a kids game maybe if there's any collectibles like cups or something maybe you can try get him one of those.
2016-03-29 00:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel girl. my boyfriend played me. i was so stupid to say yes to when he asked me out. even when we were dating he never really liked me, he really liked my friend and they like each other now.he even told me he has a list of all the girls he liked. i really dont know why boys are such players. maybe they think its cool. but its not cool to the people who have a broken heart because of them.
2007-03-11 04:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU JUST HAPPEN TO CHOOSE
THE PLAYBOY TYPE
BECAUSE YOU THINK HES FUN AND CUTE ETC.... AND GOOD GUYS ARE BORRING TO ALL GIRLS USUALLY
WELL JUST SEARCH AROUND YOU AND SURE YOU'LL FIND SOMEONE WHOS INTERESTED IN YOU AND U JUST IGNORED HIM CUZ U THOUGHT IS DUMP OR IDIOT OR BORING GIVE HIM A CHANCE
2007-03-11 04:39:35 · answer #5 · answered by rabea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They think it makes them appear a macho man / stud..
It is a very juvenile attitude..
Find more mature men...
2007-03-11 04:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only get the players cuz the way you dress.
check yoself holmes
2007-03-11 04:33:05 · answer #7 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋