I split wit the love of my life 5 months ago,we were really in love. She dumped me cus she thought i didnt trust her cus of a message she got,it was sent by my sis but i took the blame cus of family probs in r house. I near died wit a wee prob and my mum had a cancer scare. She was upset i didnt tell the truth. She went in2 depression wen we split. I wanted 2 tell her but she wudnt speak 2 me, she emailed me recently,shes wit a new guy,she told me she likes him but not in love yet,she still loves me and always will. She said she cant go bak 2 me cus she wont trust me after this but wants me as a friend. Wat do i do cus i really love her,id rather b died than live witout her, i know i can win her trust round,quite quickly,please help me guys. Ive 2 emil her bak any tips???? Ive found out her new fella is only 16 and shes a 20 year old uni student,r friends r disgusted in her and find it sick but i still love her.
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I sent her alot of letters and emails. I have wrote another letter but i am afraid to send it in case it makes me look obsessed. advice please. should i send it???
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has it beenn 2 long??
2007-03-11 04:22:50 · 5 answers · asked by Paddy I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please give me some advice folks,this has been driving me mad for months, the pain aint easing
2007-03-11 04:23:36 · update #1
oh my..that is horrible.
it seems that you two still really love each other. even i cannot bear to see you two apart..you have to tell her the truth. you have to prove to her that she can trust you. i promise, she still loves you. my best luck sent your way..
2007-03-11 04:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by heartiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude , move on, she wants her cake and eat it too as they say. she knows she can still get the good feelings from you and get her nasty on with other guys. you aren't going any where, she knows that. she figured that out a long time ago.
when people truly love each other, they can't stay mad, they look at each other and laugh it off in a few minutes., they can't help themselves. quit telling yourself you love her and tell yourself she bruised your ego and if you had her back, it wouldn't be the same and you would soon want a new one.
she isn't special anymore. she didn't have your best interest at heart.
2007-03-11 11:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to move on especially if she says she can't trust you. It will take a long time to get over her but in the end it becomes easier.
2007-03-11 11:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont take it to be much more than a drama; if your are enjoying it(drama) then no harm in even seeming a bit obcessed,because it will leave her the chance to come back in a 'scene' of reunion......keep laughing,it helps
2007-03-11 11:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by i am 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to me.my ex do the same think.just try to back her trust.never mind what she said.she love you and that is important
2007-03-11 11:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by kally m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋