I'M ANGRY AT THIS GIRL SO MUCH THAT I WANT HER TO BE IN PAIN FOREVER.HOW IS THAT WRONG? DO YOU FEEL LIKE THIS AT TIMES?
2007-03-11 04:09:43 · 13 answers · asked by m.s 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
AT TIMES I WANT HER TO DIE. HOW IS THAT WRONG??
2007-03-11 04:49:30 · update #1
Yeah I feel like that a lot. There's a lot of people [ especially girls ] that really push me over the edge sometimes and it's okay to feel like that. It really depends on what she did, who she is to you, etc. But you'll get over it. Just make sure that you don't go over her house and murder her, and you'll be fine.
2007-03-11 04:49:15 · answer #1 · answered by Lacey Crescent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do feel that way sometimes. What you have to do is not act on those feelings. Find some way to cool off-go for a long walk, take a hot shower, watch your favorite movie, read a novel-don't do things that pump up your anger like calling up a bunch of friends and venting. venting helps sometimes, but in this case, I bet it will just make you angrier. Give yourself some time, then decide what to do, if there is anything to be done. Good luck! This is a good learning experience, everyone has to deal with this.
2007-03-11 11:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling well, although in my case a girl friend wasn't involved. You need to be careful - anger, if left unchecked, can develop into depression. I did a quick Google search and found the link below. There's quite a bit to read but I think you'll find it helpful. All the best.
2007-03-18 17:49:12 · answer #3 · answered by tattyhead65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sometimes you feel this way. However, rather than feel so much anger (easy to say - hard to do) know this... there is NO one that can make you feel anything except YOU. Not this girl, not your mother, not anyone. You are the master of how you feel. If she is making you so mad that you want her to be in pain forever...is this because you feel right now in this moment that you will "feel" pain forever? Is it to get "even" with her...for your pain? Let it go... anger never solves anger problems....(I know..how do I know.. you are the only one who hurts....) let it go.....
2007-03-11 11:20:22 · answer #4 · answered by Che K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This too shall pass.
I have felt similar emotions in the past, and usually about girls. Sometimes about a guy but they tend not to make me so angry -perhaps because I don't care about them so much. Who knows.
In any case, give it time. Talk it over with your friends. You'll come to a happier place.
2007-03-11 11:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We have all experienced such anger. How we act out on such feelings is the key. If these feelings are ongoing and continue their intensity, get some help from someone before the anger or rage goes any further.
2007-03-11 12:18:29 · answer #6 · answered by Mon-chu' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.... I will give you one advice ... just act as a Saint ,,, be the one who forgive .... if anyone asked you about her , tell all the positives and hide the negatives of her .... acting so will rise your level of respect .... and will leave her live in the world of sorrow and pain of regret ..... Just be a Knight ,,, never be the beast ..... coz even if u didn't gain the result so quickly , remember that there is a God who'll definitly reward you back
2007-03-18 15:11:23 · answer #7 · answered by Nasser a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think her being in pain will make you feel better? I've had times where I've hated people for making me feel bad or talking about me, whatever she did to you has nothing to do with you, your just how she chooses to take out her frustrations and emotional issues, it's not about you, I'm sure of that, you might not see it but it will make sense to you later. focus on yourself, and keep it real, be yourself and think logically.
2007-03-18 00:39:36 · answer #8 · answered by lifeoutsidethecircle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there isn't any reason i can think of that i would want someone in pain forever...but you are coming pretty close. stop it with these sorts of questions now. you have no reason to be angry at this girl. even if you did know her i doubt you still see her. get over yourself.
2007-03-11 12:09:12 · answer #9 · answered by The Watched 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you hate Crista so much why don't you just leave her alone? Wishing for her to die is not going to make her die, it's just wasting your time. By being nasty to each other is not helping either of you. Please let go of your hate and move on.
2007-03-11 13:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by Madness 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋