i really like my friend rob and he said he would go out with me but im not sure if he meant it and i dont kno if i could trust him because he cheated on his last girlfriend with her bestfriend.
he also gets bored very easily in relationships.
i dont wanna wreck our friendship.
what should i do?
2007-03-11 03:59:00 · 24 answers · asked by kelcihrn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hiya, I would just have him as your friend, you don't want to risk losing him as a friend by going out with him and your relationship not working. It would always be on your mind if he is cheating on you, or if he is bored with you. If you decide you must go out with him i would leave it for a few months and see what happens, he may just be stringing you along. Good Luck to you whatever you decide... remember once a cheater always a cheater.
2007-03-11 04:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by kevina p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, not to speak poorly of someone that I have never met, but the rules are the rules:
"Once a cheater, always a cheater..." If his last girlfriend couldn't trust him, odds are most people can't. Future girlfriends included, girlfriend. Every relationship goes through boring phases. No one can make every day better than the first, your money or ideas will run out long before boredom sets in. If you value your friendship and want to avoid some heartbreak, keep it as just friends for now. Give him some time to grow up and figure out what he needs in a relationship for him to be able to stay in it. If he figures that out, then consider changing your relationship.
Best of luck to you both, as love is a deceptively simple emotion.
2007-03-11 11:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by John N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from a romantic relationship with this guy. Keep it friendly. You've got all the signs that if you mess with him you'll get hurt. This is a nightmare scenario of a guy to have a crush on.
The minute you become emotionally involved with him, even if he hasn't cheated yet, you might start becoming insecure wondering just when he'll start getting bored as he usually does. Do you really want to put yourself through that?
There are lots of great guys out there who haven't cheated on their ex-girlfriends (let alone with her best friend), who don't need to date a gazillion girls and who would appreciate you much more. Go find them and move on from this guy. Don't cheat yourself by stepping into a hole so many other girls stepped into. I know it's hard to get over a crush, but with this guy there's too much of a chance that it'll be much harder later - you'll have to deal with a broken heart AND having been betrayed.
Any relationship is a risk, but this guy is on a whole other level. You have to take care of your heart. Good luck -:)
2007-03-11 11:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by Purple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends...what were the circumstances surrounding the last time he cheated? If the relationship was practically over then he might not do it again. But if he just did it because he could and only broke up because he got caught out id say it might happen again.
If you really value your friendship i think you should stay clear of the relationship aspect. If he really likes you he'll give chase!!
I thought that i got bored of relationships too but now im in a long one(for me) and realise that its not the relationship its the person you get bored of.
Only you can make the decision but id be very cautious and keep my options open if i was you....Sorry
2007-03-11 11:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by buttonsmcguinty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you know you need to stay away from that. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Especially if he cheated with his girlfiend's friend, he will do the same to you, then you wouldn't be friends at all.
You deserve better. I can't imagine he is that GREAT of a friend if that's how he treats his girlfriend.
2007-03-11 11:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by blondecatty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Da best thing i would advise is, DONT GO OUT WOTH HIM.. you know how he is in relationships so dont ruin ur realtionship go and find someone u like, becasue if u know ur friend cant commit to one girl than why should it be different with u. All im saying is DONT WRECK A STABLE FRIENDSHIP!!!
2007-03-11 12:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it easy. Enjoy the friendship and see how it goes. He doesn't have the best batting average; you're already throwing up caution flags. I'd just keep him a purely platonic friend and see if it's eventually worth it. Let him do the asking.
2007-03-11 13:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see beautiful lady actually i think you should make him realize that what it feels when someone breaks the heart ok
cause as you say that he gets bored easily with relationships that means he think dat love is a game in which he is a champ ok actually if you like him then dont go for him see wether he like you or not because if he likes you then he will definetly not get bored with you
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2007-03-11 11:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then don't wreck your friendship. continue to be friends and in the long run if your meant to be together then you will. don't force it. also if he's a cheater then you might not want a relationship with him. insecurity will set in and you will always be wondering if he's cheating on you. k
2007-03-11 11:07:46 · answer #9 · answered by sexie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way honey you got too stay away from him he just ant no good for you you probably already know that saying once a cheat always a cheat sweet walk the other way find love with some one else not this loser it sounds like he will mess with your head personally i don't think he quite knows which way too go in life and really needs to grow up good luck...........there plenty more fish in the sea then him ................
2007-03-11 11:07:45 · answer #10 · answered by skye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋