Things to do on a first date?

Question

What to do and wear on a first date? Especially if I'm a guy and ain't good looking.

Answer 1

What to do:
-movies
-go out to eat pizza & ice cream
-rock climbing
-bowling
-amusement park
-shopping (especially for outgoing girls)
-boardwalk
-beach
-picnic
-rollar skating/ bike riding/ice skating
-carnival/fair

What to wear:
-something simple & casual (like a polo & jeans)
-nothing that will make her parents feel unsafe about you
-deoderant
-cologne (optional)
-you can bring her a few flowers (optional)

-EDIT-

What to say:
-compliment her ("You look really nice")
-if theres an awkward silence, talk about something that you both have in common or say something funny (laughter always helps loosen up a tense atmosphere)
-ask her questions to get to know her better ("Whats your favorite T.V. show?" or "Whose your favorite teacher?")
-DON'T forget to LISTEN to what she says. good communication from the start will lead to better relationships!

Answer 2

Ok first of all every person is pretty or handsom in their own way. So DONT EVER say that about yourself !! AS far as what to wear it really depeneds on where your going. If your going then wear baggy jeans and a striped flannel shirt but NO TIE. Thats WAY to fancy for the movies. IF youyr going to a restraunt then wear some nice shoes and have your hair brushed but you dont really want to look like you knew this. IF your going to a dance then dont wear a tux. you might want to wear the same thing you would wear to the movies but with niceer shoes. When with a girl she wants you to be yourself but not to be rude. So leave the guy stuff behind and show her what your like and what you like. Just ask her about her interests adn tell her what you think of them. Even if you hate it, shell appreicaite that you were honest.

Good Lcuk with Girls
Hannah

Answer 3

well if she accepted to date u she must find you attractive. K what you should do is act real, dont act like something your not, dont talk about urself 24/7, listen to her and respond to her stories, make sure u listen well, dont be rude be kind 2 everyone even the waiter, cab driver etc, dont bring gifts coz that can make her think she could use you for material things. dress in stuff your comftorble in if you wanna know what looks good on you ask a female friend or another female. wear cologne but not 2 strong. make alot of eye contact but dont stare that makes you look creepy. and last but not least dont look cheap or wimpy. k hope i helped

Answer 4

All u need to do is be yr self, no matter how u look. yr date will see as who u are and not what u are. She herself also might be wondering what to wear to. See where u r going for a date, u don't need a suit with bow to impress her. Dress presentable, wear u always do.

PS: yr first date surprise her with a gift ( she long to have but cant afford one)or flowers

Answer 5

BE YOURSELF. Girls won't like you if you try to change yourself. If your the Jeans-and t-shirt type of guy, wear jeans and a t shirt.

Don't be too foward and say stuff like "I love you" on the first date. A hug is a great thing to do at the end of the night, and who knows, she may just give you a little peck on the cheek if you play your cards right!

Answer 6

Wear something you are comfortable in. If you normally wear baggy jeans, don't wear khaki pants...you will feel like a clown. If you aren't "good looking", I don't know how your clothes will change your face other than putting a bag on your head or a ski mask.

Just be yourself and don't show that insecurity!

Answer 7

first of all what makes you think your not good looking? where are you going? if just to the movies then wear nice jeans and a nice shirt with hard bottom shoes and a sports jacket. have fun

Answer 8

Your looks aren't that important, it is your personality. Be nice, considerate and interested in her. Just don't go over the top with questions. Relax and enjoy the time. Wear what you are comfortable in and go to a movie if you don't wanna' talk or to dinner if you do.

Answer 9

hey guess what. i am at 2499 points. thanks for making me 2500 to get to level 4.

anyways. just wear anything normal. i mean imagine yourself in the other position.

the girl looks good but you can tell she is nervous or shy because she might have been worried on what to wear and what to look like for you.

you are good looking don't worry about it. if you don't think you are good looking, the absolute best thing is to be clean, look fresh, and smell good.

wear a button up shirt but only button 2-6 depending on how it looks. make sure you spray only 3 times with cologne. don't use tag or axe, it is too strong and it is hard to know how much you really put on.

so along with your button up shirt, wear a plain colored shirt underneath. make sure your button up shirt doesn't have wrinkles and it looks nice.

and wear loose jeans to go with it. make sure your shoes are tied too haha.

if you smell good and you are clean, you'll have a way better chance of the girl hugging you, not letting go, and cuddling with you than the sexiest guy in the world who is dirty and stinks.

and since it is your first date, just make sure you don't rush things or act innapropriate. just act how you two usually act and talk how you usually do. make jokes and add humor. girls love it when you make them laugh.

also for your hair. if you have kind of long hair, leave it wet after you get out of the shower and if it gets dry before you are ready to leave, make sure you wet it again and make sure it smells good. most girls like it when you look like you just came out of the shower.

oh and remember to put lotion on. your arms, face, neck, and abs. and anywhere else that feels dry.

another things girls like is confidence. if you are confident, smile, and you talk to her like you aren't afraid, she'll love it.

well those are my secrets. this was the longest answer i ever wrote. thanks for being my level 4 answer. it was worth it!

Answer 10

Don't put yourself down like that. I'm sure you are good looking. Wear what you feel comfortable in: Jeans and a nice shirt, nice shoes. she should like you for who you are not for what you wear.