well i got a voice message from him repeating the words 'f**** you' in a silly voice down the phone i knew it was him he even tried to hide the number it was about 1 in the morning yet it upset me, i did noting to him, he was the one who stalked me! he was the one who dumped me on msn days after telling me he loved me, wish i hadn't of wasted my money on him. its been 3 months now and i have found somebody new, i heard he was running after some new girl too. so why this ? and why now? does he want some kind of reaction from me? because right now i do feel like punching him in the face( i have never been violent by the way) how could i have been so stupid! what should i do? i see him every day at college he was also my first love and now hes being a jerk i thought he was better than all this! PLEASE HELP what should I do?
2007-03-11 03:53:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, he wants a reaction from you so why don't you give him a couple. Not the ones he was expecting either! He's asking for trouble so give it to him and give it to him good and hard! Keep records. Make sure you save all the messages that he sends you. File police reports and have him brought up on harassment or stalking charges. If he keeps this up get a restraining order or an order of protection. The cops will tell you how to proceed. Anytime he bothers you or so much as looks the wrong way at you call the cops. Tell your friends and your new boyfriend too. That new girl better watch out too. Don't let up on him either. This guy is crazy or else he's on something and he needs to be stopped.
You weren't being stupid. You were in love and that made you a little naive. Whatever, you don't have to put up with this. Just don't take the law into your own hands as that will only get you into trouble. That's the reaction that he wants so play it cool. Redirect your anger and let the law do the work for you. He'll regret the trouble he makes; for you and himself.
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2014-09-24 09:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all let me say that I am sorry for what you are going through! And, no, don't hit him, because it wouldn't solve anything! It just shows how immature that he is, and that he still have feelings for you! If he does it again, the only thing that I can say is press charges on him, there is no since in him playing games like that. If he broke up with you, then he should leave you alone. Well, this is the best advice that I can give to you! Good Luck!
2007-03-11 04:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is doing this because he knows it will have an effect. You could keep something by the phone that will make an ear-splitting noise ( a horn or whistle maybe) and use it if he calls again. Alternatively, you could ask a male family member or friend to pick up if he calls again and tell him not to call in future or you could change your number. Choose to find ways to avoid giving him the opportunity to bother you.
2007-03-11 04:01:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's in all probability being nasty given which you wont respond to his emails. he's in all probability attempting to work out how a techniques he can push you and with you not replying, he would get the hint that he cant hassle you with what he says or does. Your not giving him the attention or reaction that he theory he would get. His emails would upset you and get on your nerves and in case you spoke back, he would recognize that he have been given to you. i'd recommend getting a clean e mail handle and specializing in you and your young ones existence. Your all greater useful off with out him if he treats you this way. good success
2016-12-18 10:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, exes can be nasty at times! I had one who stalked me, rang me all hours of the night etc. Best thing you can do is to ignore him completely, do not answer the phone, put it on silent at night, don't text him back or don't acknowledge him. He will soon get fed up and move on. Enjoy your new relationship and put this down to experience. Be happy!
2007-03-11 03:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by Lorraine G 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Same thing I am having to do. Let it go. He apparently isn't worth it, if he is acting like that. Better you find out how petty he can be before you got even more serious.
2007-03-11 03:57:40 · answer #7 · answered by sassynsweet1221 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a reaction is what he wants. he probably is regretting he dumped you in the first place. now in his own warped way he's trying to see if there's a chance he can come back. don't do anything. do you have call blocker on your phone? if so, use it.
2007-03-11 03:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by sexie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the police...Don't ever put up with a stalker, because you can't risk how far he may go....doesn't matter if you thiink you know him and you think he would never hurt you, he sounds like a sick person if he is behaving like this and you need to protect number one (YOU)!!!!
2007-03-11 04:02:11 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all he is possessed by you which is bad, he must have really been in love with you although it sounds like he doesnt really know what being in love is becasue if he did he would leave you alone and let you figure out what you want , its bad that you see him everyday, try to get other girls interested in him and send them that way ....
2007-03-11 04:01:15 · answer #10 · answered by karen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋