I know I have my whole life ahead of me, but I would like something now. All my friends spend their weekends on dates, meanwhile I'm the butt of ridicule because I've never been on a date with any girl. All the girls I like don't like me. Surew I can be their best friend, but that's it. Metion lunch or a dance and thier running for thier lives. What's the problem here? Am I a inconsiderate, ugly, too - forward jerk or are they b**thes?
I have one girl I just want one date with, and if she despises me I'll let her be for good, but how can I even get that. what am I supposed to do? These kind of things are really driving me crazy, and constantly knaw at my mind.
I really love her, but how on earth can I figure out her feelings? Please help!!!
2007-03-11 03:49:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are too impressionable and gullible and you are evidently desperate.
Women can sense desperation so you need to snap out of it and stop making yourself so available, they like guys with confidence.
Also you have to stop believing everything other guys tell you. They SAY they are all on dates etc but dont believe them, they say things to impress people and be part of the group.
2007-03-11 04:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhhhh ok buddy. I used to have the same problem. Well, i was 12 then, and now im 15, and if your really worried, just be yourself.
1. Ladies like humor. Plain and simple.
2. Zits arent a turn-on. Wash your face with hot water and soap and apply oxy or stridex pads.
3. DONT USE CHEEZY PICK UP LINES. Ease into the asking out of someone by saying like "Hey im gonna see *put movie name here*, do you wanna tag along with me? Mind, just dont say that out of the blue, start a convo about movies or something. Cheezy pick up lines a turn off for girls.
2007-03-11 04:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know if you are an inconsiderate, ugly, too-forward jerk. But one suggestion: take the word "bitches" out of your vocabulary when referring to your female friends- that's a definite turn-off.
Onto the problem: if we all got exactly what we wanted when we wanted it then it wouldn't be that special. If you have any girl "FRIENDS", try asking them if your approach is in need of refinement. Otherwise, I'd just take my time and try to be cool.. someone will come along when you don't expect it.
Good luck
2007-03-11 03:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her.
Maybe you come on too strong. Relax and be nice to everyone and sooner or later someone will find you appealing. If any of these girls are really your friend ask her why. Tell her what you said here and ask her to be honest. Just be ready for the answer
2007-03-11 03:54:17 · answer #4 · answered by greenfrogs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all you can have anything you want if you work hard enough to get it, i wasnt a kncokout in high school, but when i liked a popular guy i said he wouldnt notice me trust me id talk to him and say very little but each day id say a little more id be really cool about what id say and then he started noticing me and when he did i kind of didnt want him anymore, kind of was like a challenge.
2007-03-11 03:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by karen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. At least then you will know.
2007-03-11 03:57:55 · answer #6 · answered by Lindsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yours
2007-03-11 03:53:35 · answer #7 · answered by Julie R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋