Does he still love me?

Question

My parents split me and my 3 year bf up because they found up hed cheated on me whilst I was on holiday. I felt dead and torn appart and didnt know whether to hate him or not. I blamed myself for everything. It was over xmas and I had 2 face the reality of what hed done and hell from my parents. I havnt been out since xmas until last night fro the first time as Iv been quite unhappy. His mates came up 2 me last night and told me the mess he was in, crying over xmas saying how sorry he was and now hed left his job and is off work with depression. He hasnt been out 2 our local for nearly a month now no ones seen him. I sent him a txt last night 2 c how he was. He txt me back saying he loved me more than anything else in the world and was sorry 4 everything hes done to me and said goodbye. I txt him back and gave him a ring but he wont answer me. Is he with someone else now?. I feel so low . Id just sorted myself out and everything feels as though my lifes falling appart again.

Answer 1

Move on, leave this one alone.

Answer 2

STOP worrying about HIM, he was the one who cheated on u, and anyways if he said he LOVED U SO MUCH then why did he cheat in the 1st place. Dont even bother to be unhappy for him, yes sure u can moan and cry the first time around but then get urself togetha and start having some fun slowly cause the way u sound to me is u feel sorry for him not for urself in going out with someone like him. Oh and if his friends came up to u and said all this then dont mind them becasue he should come round urs and tell it urself. Sees how much he loves even u have to do ur first move. PlZ i dont want to b rude just forget him and MOVE ON..

Answer 3

He loves you for sure. He made a terrible mistake. But you know what, everyone deserves a second chance. The fact that he has been so effected shows that he is not proud of it and is not likely to be a cheater as a personality trait. He is no player.

As for you you obviously love him as well. So you should give him another chance there is love there.

Tell your family to keep the hell out of it, it is your choice alone and no one elses.

I would go and make up with him, and forgive him. Track him down to see him in person and get back together. In person is always always best.

Go for it-- it could be something great

Look how unhappy you have been apart

Answer 4

This will sound harsh but you are still a bit child like this isn`t a bad thing as getting old is not good but you still need to grow up. The hardest thing about growing up is the hurt you feel when you love someone and break up but there will be many boyfriends before you meet the right person for you. I was gutted when i split with my first love but its mainly due to the fact you are dealing with new emotions you are not yet in control of. Take care and remember you deserve someone who deserves you this guy doesn`t.

Answer 5

Don't be low, I feel for you I really do, If you guys were meant to be, you'll be. Give him another text in the week to see if he wants to meet up and talk. Sit your mum and dad down and say its something you need to sort out and decide for yourself and even though u appreciate their love and support and protection, you need to make your own decisions. I think there must be deeper issues. If you can forgive him, he's prob in need of a friend for now. Good luck x x

Answer 6

go out with a few friends and forget him. i know its hard sweetie. but you will get through it believe me good luck. and im not being funny or anything but how did your parents know he cheated on you.if your parents are nosey about your love life tell them its your life and you can do what you want. i think your parents are a bit posseive if they do that, yeah some parents are protective but splitting your kids up with their boyfriends thats over the top. i could be wrong but id never do that to my children. he must be a loser if he cant be bothered or be man enough to answer his phone. hes acting like a child

Answer 7

If he didn't answer your call, he can't be that desperate to get you back. Also my belief is that once a cheater, always a cheater. Move on girl, you can do better. It seems like the end of your world now but believe me things will get better. Get back out there and start enjoyng yourselfe again!!

Answer 8

As he didn't answer your call. Leave it at that. He must be feeling guilty. And you are still hurting. I would leave it for now. If he wants you back he will come and talk with you. I mean talk. Not by text or phone call. So you'll have to wait and see. If by then he has not approached you, then you and only you know the answer.

Answer 9

Get together with him and sort everything out!! get it off your chest and cloe this chapter of your life!! with or without him, but get closure... you might feel bad for a while but then you will feel beter and it wont upset you that much again, i hope anyway

good luck:)

and we all make mistakes, it what we learn from them what counts

Answer 10

If you are sure you still truly love him & can honestly forgive him for his betrayal, tell him so. People make mistakes & the saying that old dogs can't change spots is not 1% true. True love is worth every effort to keep, including sacrifice of pride.

Answer 11

if he loved u more than anything then he wouldnt have cheated on u he's just depressed because he got found out and lost 2 girls on the other hand his friends wouldnt have told u that unless they want him to get back with you and work things out.