I caught her in bed w/ him 9 days ago. He just called crying begging me to let him be w/ him again. He says he never loved her she was just there to fill his needs .He says he don't really want her & that he LOVES me... What would u do?
2007-03-11 03:45:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
run away FAST!!! if hes gonna cheat he will do it again and if he dont, then u will always have doubts that he will...is it really worth it!!! I think that if one person loves another then he/she cant cheat, its the ultimate betrayal to me
2007-03-11 03:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by starlight1blonde87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like most people, I CAN believe it. I can also believe that had you not caught him, it would have went on longer. Who's to say when his need will have been filled. And who's to say that he won't have the same needs again.
Its exceedingly rare in these trying times of short-lived relationships that people deserve a second chance. The number of people who stay faithful after an initial act of cheating is so ridiculously slim, you must question yourself and your motives before giving a second chance.
He LOVES you now that you caught him, and he's lost a good thing. But what did he SAY to get her into bed... I think you know where I'm going with this. Best of luck to you in choosing your path, both are difficult and present their own pains.
2007-03-11 10:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by John N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not go back with that person. That lets them know you are willing to forgive thier faults, which they could begin to do more often. I'm sure you don't need to put up with anyone's crap. You deserve someone better and if you let that person back in your life, then you are the one at fault the second time. Move on there are more people.
2007-03-11 10:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey you know what take this advice am a guy and if i cheated on my girlfriend i would break up with her because i'm sorry to sa that if you need to sleep with someone else to fulfill is needs hen he must not care about you to wait until you will full fill his needs so i don't think you should take him back
sorry your friend,ears,and heart!
2007-03-11 10:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by itsreallyjlt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was he thinking 9 days ago? You deserve more than that.
2007-03-11 10:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. You want to be with someone who cheats on you, go ahead.
2007-03-11 10:48:50 · answer #6 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never get past that imagine in your mind. Better to move on.
2007-03-11 10:48:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend, don't allow him back into your life again.
He isn't worth it.
2007-03-11 10:49:56 · answer #8 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋