i am in a relationship where my boyfriend is very busy with his work . he meets me every saturday , takes me for a movie and drops me back . I am tired of it . if i tell him i need more time to spend he has some appointement in the evening . HEllo even i can go for a movie and come back i dont need company .I want to spend quality time. when i complain he says i dont want to argue . We are grown ups. Do all relationship work like that at 25 .PLease answer
2007-03-11 00:54:07 · 6 answers · asked by Saadiyah p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello..dont worry i dont work so il be with you 24 7 until you get sick of me and then i wont leave you
2007-03-11 01:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by Tookie Williams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the fool if you put up with this sort of behavior.
I would do other things every other day you wished to....
Monday go to a gym and exercise and do an aerobic class.
Tuesday go to the local bar for a drink or out with a girlfriend..or go alone..thats the best way to meet people.
Wednesday..back to the gym and do a Jazz ballet or other class..have a sauna and relax with a massage each month as a treat.
Thursday...Join a class or a group..learn something. There are many free classes at the Community Centre...do something like Painting, life drawing, cooking or dancing.
Friday go to the Pub again. or play bowls or take up another sport like Squash..join a team so you have a committment.
Saturday join a hiking or walking club in the aftnoon..do you housework in the morning. Go to the Hairdresser....you go out with him in the evening..and you are full of your week's activities...and you now definetely do not have time to date him any more.
Sunday church in the morning...and Brunch somewhere and then walk the gardens, do the galleries, and weekend markets.
Who wants a man like you got!!!!!! Not me..thats my life..
2007-03-11 09:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by Maggi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say maybe a few is like that. If you are really unhappy in the relationship and when you tell him how you feel and all he tells you that he doesn't want to argue, why don't you just find another man that can give you more attention . than what you are getting. I really don't think I could handle that situation either. good luck.
2007-03-11 09:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each relationship is different and I dont think there is such a thing as a general relationship.
I suppose it depends on what the individual needs of boths side are and if they are being met.
I would say your relationship is not meeting your needs.
2007-03-11 09:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My 25 year old son's girl friend is kinda like that
I guess at this point in time work is more important than relation ship
2007-03-11 08:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by ULTRA150 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in a relationship right now but i have a job also. i make time for my gf not go out with her whenever i have time. i say dump him. who knows he may be cheatin on u but don't jump to that conclusion.
2007-03-11 09:06:46 · answer #6 · answered by nathan s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋