my best guy friend loves me, i can tell because he is always seriously flirting with me(I flirt back) but i don't know if we should get together because he always says he hates relationships but loves flirting and i've already told him i like him as a friend but since that i think i have fallen for him and the bad thing is he has liked me for this whole year, I think i love him to it's just I Don't for shure know. What do i do???
2007-03-11 00:39:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should talk with him..Tell him about how you feel n b clear to him that you love him n you want a relationship..Make sure he knows that you are not just flirting n u expect a meaningful relationship..so maybe if he is willing to, he may go ahead..but make sure you let it clear b4 you go on otherwise u'll get hurt later on..
2007-03-11 01:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly their may be a reason for his dislike of relationships like he has had a couple of bad previous ones etc.
Also feelings changes and if he is interested in you then he will ignore the fact you said you like him as a friend if you were to ask him out..
Honestly though just ask him out and see where it goes.
They say all good relationships start out as friendship.
2007-03-11 08:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife is my best friend and it is great. Try a date or two, just the two of you and see how it feels. Being alone together in a romantic setting will let you and him know if it is love or just a "special friendship".
2007-03-11 08:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by docelec2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont know for sure then your probably not. if you have to second guess yourself in the love department always go with your first instinct. guy friends are great but you have to draw a line at the flirting. flirting is all it is......so if your unsure id leave it at that
2007-03-11 08:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by none 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it, though I think the bad part will be that if it doesn't work out as boyfriend and girlfriend then the friendship will also lose. Say it turns out you get serious feelings for him and after awhile he only wants to be your friend again. I think it'll be hard to just be his friend if you feel you want more.
2007-03-11 08:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both have been getting off by being coy and flirtatious. It is time to either go to the next level together, or, just let it go and move on.
2007-03-11 08:44:53 · answer #6 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not enough info to answer wisely, completely and intelligently for just knowing a "friend" for a year...ask yourself this...is flirting for a year love? maybe not...crush, puppy love..ask mom or dad what love is and listen to their answer....maybe you should date(not sleep with) other people and see what this guy does...you have all the power and prob dont know it yet..does he see or date others? just not enough info ..be careful...
2007-03-11 08:49:42 · answer #7 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go for it! If it doesn't turn out right you can always keep it as a friendship
2007-03-11 08:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by michshell159 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to tell him how you feel.
And he might say it back if u say he is in love with you
2007-03-11 08:45:18 · answer #9 · answered by Jade L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it
2007-03-11 08:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by problem_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋