sooooooo, i told this guy what i thought and he hasnt replied back to me. i think i have made a total fool out of myself coz i said that i think he likes me and stuff and he makes me think he wants to ask me out coz thats the info he given by his body language and looks in class but he wont approach me so i told him exactly what i thought was going through his head and told him to tell me like it is and not keep messing with my head. was i wrong to do this? have i sacred him off totally or have i done it right. i emailed him and told him, i could never ever do it in person coz it would be sooooo hard for me. so i told him to email me, text me ring me, or tell me how it is coz i have had enough of him looking at me and giving me eye contact all the time and checking me out and him being nice to me without telling me what he really wants and its bugging me coz its been 3 yrs now and i have had enough. it drives me crazy and so i had to do what i had to do. was i right in doing so?
2007-03-11 00:27:29 · 10 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You were right in asking him how he feels about you, but you probably should have let him know you are willing to be just friends if he doesn't feel that way. All in all being honest about what you are feeling or thinking is never a bad thing. Don't feel like a fool. He is the fool if he doesn't give you some kind of answer. Good luck
2007-03-11 00:32:52 · answer #1 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is great that you finally after three years asked him what's up. He did not respond to you yet, because if it took him three years not to say anything, it will take him a lot of time to confirm your suspicions. He may have tried to keep it a secret for so long, that you surprised him by calling him out on his feelings. Right now, leave it alone, go on like normal, and when you see him, smile, and be quiet. You can't push for the answer, but hopefully he won't be shy for much longer.
You emailed him because it was hard for you to look him in the face and ask him. I am sure that he is finding it very difficult to talk or write to you about it. Hope all works out for you!!! Good luck!
2007-03-11 00:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by Angel333... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sister what's done is done and you cant go back in time and change anything so what you do now that you've stuck your foot so far it's gonna take a crane to get it out is wait for his comeback and it could go either way so in the meantime work out what you think and feel about him and be prepared to tell him exectly how you fell because while you're trying to think for him he's still trying to work out what exactly he's feeling for you because at that age which i presume is right before puberty he's all confused but if he's already gone through puberty he may think he only wants to sleep with you but not really sleep but as he's been observing you for three years his emotions may be confused from all of the puberty issues he's going through like wetting his bed and getting random erections in the worst places like in the boys' locker or on the bus standing up or having to do an oral presentation in class and imagining everyone naked so that he doesn't freak out and having all these images of naked girls in his head while he's trying to remember what he's supposed to be saying oh it's all so complicated sometimes but when you pass that hurdle in time you're going to look back at this moment and laugh so hard at yourself.
Hope you could understand it- i tried your style of writing without ANY punctuation to see if you like having to read things three times to understand what's going on!
Uh?
2007-03-11 00:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by canguroargentino 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never, not ever, do you tell someone they are "messin' with your head" or anything of the sort. You surrendered most of the power in whatever potential there is for a friendship. If he was not messing with you on purpose, you have sent him an open invitation. If he was doin' it on purpose you have just confirmed the kill.
You have botched this one, but all is not lost. Pursue other boys to get your head together. And once you get good at everything to do with boys--if you still think he's all that--this one mistake won't matter at all.
2007-03-11 00:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by paralegaltechnik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, 3 years...he should know what to do by now...lol...time to find a real guy/man, otherwise you are setting yourself up to be used and hurt bigtime..find somebody that will treat you like a person..maybe talk to you like one too!...of course you knew that already....there are soo many good guys out there..they will just want to be your friend first and not want to "get with you" then dump you like most these days..be careful and get to know the real guy first even before the first kiss..if he stays around till then, he may just be the real deal...if you give too much of yourself, then it will be ..NEXT! for him..if you know what I am saying...
2007-03-11 00:39:40 · answer #5 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are making yourself too busy of thinking it too much, well I think whatever it's, just pretend that you never email him and since you are not interested in him, move on and don't play eyes contact anymore!
2007-03-11 00:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i am a firm believer in being honest and girl if it really bugs you then you are right to say anything you want to.....thats why god gave you a mouth! im glad your using yours
2007-03-11 00:33:31 · answer #7 · answered by none 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You go girl!
Get him off his ***!
You sound smart and fun. If he snoozes he losses!
good for you! If you don't hear back soon move, on it ain't gonna happen!
2007-03-11 00:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by Rich 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well first off, do this. Quit talking to this guy in English class and pay attention. Learn about punctuation. He doesn't like you because you are stupid.
2007-03-11 00:31:29 · answer #9 · answered by Pimp Daddy 1 · 0⤊ 5⤋
nope for all ladies never never never tell a guy wot u think he is thinking never ever it will never work ask him what he think he prbly wont tell u but dont tell him wat he is think
2007-03-11 00:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by kezz247 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋