does appearance really affects the way you fall in love with someone? nowadays most of the ppl falls in love by the looks of others but it's not true love then right? What is more important is what's inside and not what's outside. what do you think?
2007-03-11 00:20:20 · 16 answers · asked by fed up 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Beauty is only skin deep. It's what's on the inside that counts.
2007-03-11 00:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes appearance does sometimes affect the way we fall in love, after all we are only humans. We say that's you should not love someone for the way they look, but for who they really are, personality wise. But many of us fail to do that! However it's what's inside that really counts, i am telling you this but at the same time you must remember that you must also be psychically attractive to person to fall in love. So it's 50/50.
Take care
2007-03-11 03:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by Playful~Beauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, people have always fallen in love with people's looks or else people's money. Read some Victorian novels or medieval romances with exercises in romantic shallowness. Looks matter, and anyone who doesn't think so is deluding themselves. Walk down the street and notice couples. Most of them are more or less equivilantly attractive. Sure, there are some anomalies but this is the general trend. The first things we notice about people are their face and body and we go through a first "weeding out' from there and often from those people we find suitable partners based on personality. Love is not some mystical romantic feeling, it's programmed into us so that we can make babies and raise families and attractive people have advantages in securing "better" partners.
2007-03-11 00:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by Cybele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think whats important is personality because its whats inside that really counts. i once new a guy who was so handsom but then he had a terrible personality he thought too much of himself,however i knew another guy who was 10/10 and he was beautiful and he was down to earth! Its what every girl wants, but then not always every girl gets, its to dayyyyyym lucky! Right i fell in love with the guy but the problem was he didnt feel the same way i was heart broken!I loved everything he did and i was totally obsessed with him! I am still confused till this day!
2007-03-11 00:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by Sweety_gyal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well of coarse when you first meet someone there has to be some sort of physical attraction there but at the end of the day you need someone you connect with and can have a conversation with.
When you fall in love with someone, and i mean truly fall in love, its always with the person that they are on the inside and not what they look like.
xxx
2007-03-11 03:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there has to be a level of physical attractiveness. Its just the way it is.
Be careful, though not to go out with someone JUST because they are pretty. I went out with a fella, cos I thought he was gorgeous, which he was, but he was as dull as dishwater.
I've had fellas ask me out, just because they thought I was pretty, and it was like all they ever said. I got fed up thinking, then that they weren't interested in me, just that I met their accepted level of attractiveness.
Being able to be in someones company and enjoy it is what matters. At the end of the day, you will only see whats inside.
2007-03-11 00:33:42 · answer #6 · answered by bee bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people do fall in love on the basis of looks but I think it depends what happens after that.
If you like the persons personality etc then its love, if you dont like the persons personality then its not love and you are with them for looks.
What you have to remember is that looks change and persons personality generally wont.
2007-03-11 00:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well here it is plainly........would you ever even talk to someone you thought was ugly? to get to know them if they totally turned you off........i dont think anyone would and if they say different then they are probably lying. looks give you a jump start on getting to know someone.....so yes they do matter....but keep in mind everyone has their own opinion of what beauty is....maybe its that hot big hootered girl next door, maybe its that homely checkout girl/guy at your local supermarket, maybe its that chunky girl/ guy that always gives you coffee on the house........i do guarantee ur idea of a hot person is not going to be the same as others........so love on looks alone fake fake fake looks just start you off then personality takes it from there.
2007-03-11 00:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by none 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agreed. You might fall for pretty/handsome looks in the beginning, but it won't last if what's inside isn't attractive!
2007-03-11 00:24:04 · answer #9 · answered by jet-set 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go for what is inside. A person can be beautiful and still can be mean and nasty. I would rather spend my time with someone who treated me with respect, kindness and loving then spend time with someone who thinks they have it all and don't need me around..
2007-03-11 00:25:38 · answer #10 · answered by Donna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋