I met a man online and we made plans for Friday night. I gave him my phone # and he left a msg, but didn't leave his number. I sent him an email saying I got his message, but had no way to return his call. He emailed back that he'd call again. Friday came and went, and he finally called again on Saturday saying sorry I missed you again - let me know the best time to call. He completely disregarded the fact that he "stood me up" on Friday night. I have no time for games and want to be clear about closure. What should I say in my final email to him?
2007-03-11 00:06:17 · 13 answers · asked by JustMe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't bother sending him a final email. When he doesn't hear from you again, he'll get the hint that you dropped him.
2007-03-11 00:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh!!
dear friend i have try to get togeter with u with the porpuse to know u better i have truested u and give u my phone number but i have not get urs and i fell like u dont trust me i make pland for last friday night and u dint not show up.. and on the top of that u have noe apologis for no showing up well..
i believe that any relationship and i mean any relationship is a two way street i have meet u have way and u have not show any intent to meet me there (half way) so i can not do everything by myself and because of this i would like to say thank u for the oportunity u gave me to know u, i think i have learn a few things from u and i have enjoy our conversations..u as it now i would like for u and i to stop talking for some time... no for me to clear my head but for u to decide what is that u r doing i fu want to continu a frienship then send me and e-mail if not it has being a pleasure..plz dont expect and email from me because i dont see a reason for me to persute this frienship...i wish u well in ur life//
is that good??
2007-03-11 08:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by chance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both to blame...nothing concrete was established as far what time he might call, and the fact that he did say, "sorry I missed you" does in some way show some regard... At least his attempts are honest and sincere, but now-a-days, who is? You both need to get your wires crossed together
ONE MORE THING: THERE ARE TWO SIDES TO A COIN. THE ANSWERS YOU GET ARE BASED ONLY ON YOUR STORY...WHAT'S HIS? HE SHOULD BE GIVEN THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT AND ALLOW HIM TO EXPLAIN BEFORE ACTING ON ANY OF OUR ADVICE
2007-03-11 08:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Fred,
I have very clear rules about polite behaviour. You stood me up Friday night and have not voluntarily acknowledged that. This strongly indicates you are a player of games, therefore you and I have nothing in common.
I wish you well for your future.
Kind regards,
Jane
2007-03-11 08:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by Gillian 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him I waited for your call on friday night and felt stood up. It would be nice if we remained friends and if ever we both have time in our busy lives we would meet.
2007-03-11 08:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by alice_nobleandkind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say to him , i dont like to be messed about and this relationship just isnt going to work sorry i hope we can still be friends
If the jerk stood me up he would never hear the end of it
2007-03-11 08:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by Jade L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best way to solve any problem is to just open your Heart
all your feelings,emotions,thoughts through fine & polite words!
2007-03-11 08:11:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him what your looking for and that he is not the man for you.
Then just explain how you wants things to go on from their i.e. friends, no contact at all etc.
2007-03-11 08:11:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
EXACTLY what you said to us. You didn't sound nasty or harsh. You just stated the facts. It's good you realize what you want!
2007-03-11 08:10:18 · answer #9 · answered by Duchess20 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, don't worry about him, and be yourself, isn't bracing truth better than false hope?
(or don't b yourself and tell him that you have a boyfriend- sometimes b*llsht# work better than any truth...)
2007-03-11 08:14:51 · answer #10 · answered by texjack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋