My friend introduced me to this boy. he is this punk/emo kid that is in a band and he's about 230 pounds and 5'6''.he is the sweetest guy i have ever met in my life.
i'm like the biggest prep in the world and im a cheerleader. im 123 pounds and 5'5''.
we talked online and on the phone for about 2 weeks.i met him in person two days ago,me and him just hungout in his room for 2 hours talking while my friend was hanging out with his sister.i found out alot of stuff about him and i told him alot about me.he told me he hates smokers but i've been smoking for about a year now but i told him i didnt (was i wrong for lying to him?). he seems VERY nervous around me when i sat on his bed about 2 feet away from him he got really tense and he kept starring at me (why did he get so nervous?).he told me that he hasn't madeout with a girl EVER,im one of the most popular girls in school so i guess you could say i have ''experience''. this is the first guy i actually really liked. what should i do???
2007-03-11 00:01:42 · 4 answers · asked by Erica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S. im 14 and he's 15.
2007-03-11 00:02:09 · update #1
i use to always think fat people were gross and just sickening to look at but now i see that there the sweetest people in the world but hes still the only fat person i talk to besides his sister but she hates me because she thinks im a stuck up b*itch but im not.
2007-03-11 00:03:41 · update #2
oh yeah forgot to mention when i was leaving i gave him a little kiss and i saw him with a huge smile on his face and when i talked to him later that night he said he was smiling for like 2 hours.
2007-03-11 00:09:32 · update #3
he has alot of friends too so it isnt that he has no friends.
2007-03-11 00:10:12 · update #4
what's the problem? you like him he likes you .
sweetie you missing the whole point of connection with another person it does'nt matter what your into and what hes into as long as it isnt drug. The point im trying to get to is that your both human and you both like each other if your worried about what people will think. I tell you what i was told when i was in high school with a problem. after you graduate you'll never see these people again unless you in a small town. Its true I've have'nt seen not 1 person so just live your life and take you chances for you good luck
2007-03-11 00:14:58 · answer #1 · answered by katiegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off, if you like the guy then you should probably start building a foundation of trust between both of you. tell him about your smoking habit so he knows the real you.
after that you can probably just tell him to chill. he gets nervous because he doesn't know what he's going to do/do next. make him feel comfortable (as you've said, you have experience) so that there won't be tension in your conversations.
2007-03-11 08:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by kid thirty two 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably nervous because you are popular and beautiful, and he doesn't think he really has a chance with you. Continue to talk to him and see what happens. If he doesn't make a move, give him a kiss and see if that wakes him up.
2007-03-11 08:06:43 · answer #3 · answered by supertop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, that's so sweet. I'd go with Supertops advice (the first answer).
2007-03-11 08:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by Skitch_™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋