Do you think its better to settle for an okay looking guy (not cute or ugly), thats nice and funny, or is it better to hold out for the guy you have minor flirtations with and barely talk to, and is super cute?
okay guy: funny, nice, I know for sure he likes me
cute guy: nice, quiet, might like me, did I mention so cute?
2007-03-10 23:58:47 · 9 answers · asked by emma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay wait, I dont like the cute JUST because hes cute. I just get this feeling about him, like he is a great, nice, smart guy... But he's very quiet.
2007-03-11 00:05:45 · update #1
well i dont think settle is the word your looking for DATE the nice guy (that doesn't me girl friend boyfriend) and you can still flirt with the cute one and posible date him to
2007-03-11 00:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by katiegirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The cuteness will fade as he grows old. But the guy who is Funny and Nice will always remain that why.
Depends on which guy you like better (and I dont mean to judge with looks)
2007-03-11 00:02:53 · answer #2 · answered by alice_nobleandkind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must do what you like the best. Okay guy have plus points you have a liking for both but you are sure okay guy like you..his liking for you is plus point."might like" will not do.Dont confuse your self . It is nature of a person we should consider plus good health..Physical cuteness is required insexual relations is of no value at the time of having sex...both are in some other world at that time...What is required even at that time..is that both must be in a mental status of full surenderness with faith and love for each other.
2007-03-11 00:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it is setteling. In the end you will see that in your eyes the okay guy becomes the really cute guy. You have to have conversation to make a relationship. Go for the ok guy they always treat you the best in the end.
2007-03-11 00:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by hotmomma4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People become ready to commit to relationships at different times. It's a mistake to wait for the uber cute one. It may also be a mistake to settle.
Look around a little you may find a third option that is exactly what you are looking for.
2007-03-11 00:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it sounds like you really have strong feelings for either of them, if you're flicking between them like you were picking apples out of a bin. I'd say just stay friends with both guys until something in your feelings develops that doesn't leave a doubt in your mind.
2007-03-11 00:02:41 · answer #6 · answered by charmedchiclet 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you use the word "settle" this implies you are not satisfied. so neither, it sounds like you just dont want to be without a boyfriend, having to "settle" for one isnt a healthy comprimise, neither of them are for you
2007-03-11 00:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course it is
it isnt just about looks its about personality sense of humour and all of that kind of stuff
2007-03-11 00:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by Jade L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
an okay guy
2007-03-11 00:01:18 · answer #9 · answered by pantherman321 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋