well i feel like crap right now but i need some advice. is it bad if you have slept with 16 guys when your only 17 but you have been havin sex since you was 13? someone please give me some advice.
2007-03-10 23:45:27 · 10 answers · asked by michiganrules06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is not too late to stop your unhealthy sex life not to mention multiple partners may increase your risks of contracting sexual diseases, not to mention Aids.
Find a steady bf and just keep yourself just for him.
To start at 13 is bad ... your parents must be sad to know about this.
2007-03-10 23:51:53 · answer #1 · answered by Phantom of the Opera 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly yes this is bad and the fact that you are feeling bad about it should tell you something. Whenever we ladies are being that promiscuous then there is a problem inside of us. You are trying to fill some sort of emotional void. It may be that you did not receive the nurturing and love that you should have from your father and so you look for it elsewhere. This is only a speculation of course as I don't know you but it is in general a fair assessment.
My advise to you is to talk to your parents (you don't need to tell them the whole issue here) but tell them that you have some problems and you would like to talk to a marriage and family therapist. A good therapist will be able to help you find out why you do this and deal with the issues that cause your promiscuity. If you don't stop this behavior, you will end up pregnant, with a disease and really miserable. This will effect your feelings of self worth and your self esteem.That in turn will effect every aspect of your life; school, friends and of course any meaningful relationship you would ever like to have with a boy. Most guys will not seriously date a girl that is so promiscuous.
Also I would recommend that if you are not in church you get yourself there and fire up that relationship with God. For He is the ultimate healer.
God Bless you and I will pray for you!
2007-03-11 07:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by The OTHER Boelyn Chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Child you have really lost your way haven't you?! Stop treating yourself like this. This is not normal, nor healthy for you. You need to seek assistance to take better care of yourself. Whomever had sex with you at 13 should be in jail as a sexual predator. I don't care if you let him. It is not right, it is against the law and it is not normal! Only a sick person would do that to a child of 13. 17 isn't old enough either. You should be dating, dressing up for parties, going to the movies, having more than one boyfriend, having girlfriends, stuff like that. But not having sex. So if you care at all about yourself, you'll stop this behavior. Be good to yourself! HUGS
2007-03-11 07:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW....
um....
Bad?
I cant judge that... no one should... that is between you and God...
But I CERTAINLY dont recommend it.
WHY did you start having sex so young? You were still a child... you shouldnt have exposed your body to that--it is unsafe.
Did you use protection every time?
Do you use birth control?
Have you been tested for STDs? (Sexiually transmitted diseases)
Were these one night stands...friends with benefits... or relationships?
I cant say that it is bad... I can say it is VERY uncommon. That is more sexual partners than the average person has had at their death.
I REALLY recommend that you
1) get tested for STDs
2) stop having sex with new partners
3) get on some sort of birth control
4) check out the following internet site for organizations in your area that provide group or individual counseling for free/cheap
2007-03-11 08:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer Anne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u 17 hmm... i had sex for the firts time when i was 13...so what can i say...i can say this....if having sex makes u feel unconfortable stop STOP RIGHT NOW soon u will lose selfsteem get pregnat and get a std hmm u know wht u need to do u can hear it inside urself just love urself sex is not love and noone loves someone that is only good for sex... u r better than that
2007-03-11 07:51:11 · answer #5 · answered by chance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 guys! wow you must have good look with guys then
Im 17 and i only hav slept with my boyfriend
u cant keep messing blokes around like this i mean come on
2007-03-11 07:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by Jade L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woa, ur a pro. Do you feel really bad about it? Then stop doing it. Don't think so much about guys. Go find a job or continue your education.You decide!
2007-03-11 07:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its both
its good that have examend everything and got experiouns and now you must know what you like and you dont like
and its bad because ... i dont know why is it bad but it is some how bad
2007-03-11 07:55:48 · answer #8 · answered by Roy Keen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my GOD!!! im suprised.... well i think you should just stop, and concentrate on study.
2007-03-11 07:50:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah it's not bad. Um... We should hook up.. :)
2007-03-11 07:49:16 · answer #10 · answered by zhell1313 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋