am i ok?? this is kinda personal info but here goes nuthin..?

Question

i feel so self concisous all the time that i often wonder, am i ok?
im 13 years oold (14 in less than a month) I'm 5'3" 130 pounds. ppl say i look like i weigh 110. my cup size is 34C. i do hav a butt (i must confess). i am into sports and stuff so i do hav sum of muscle, ppl say i'm very curvy, i do hav acne, & my mom just tell's me i hav more of a woman's body than a teenage girl's.
Am I ok?
I feel like a freak most of the time.
I feel fat though everyone tells me I'm skinny.
i just think they're trying to b nice..
but I'm not convinced so yes i kno it seems pathetic but im coming to a computer for advice..

PS is 25 aroung my waist fat? just wondering..

Answer 1

You are marvelous.

It sounds like you are going through what is typical for growth as a teenager.

Some girls mature faster than others and this seems to be the case with you.

I did not mature at the same rate as my older sister and her breasts are way larger then mine even though we weigh about the same.

As far as your weight goes do not worry about this either.

I have always weighed more then most of my friends.
That being said however I am not as "fat" as they are.

Muscle weighs more then fat.

If you ask your mom for help with this brief experiment you will get a better visual.

Look at a pound of butter and then ask your mom or even a butcher at the market to show you what a one pound steak looks like.

You will notice that the steak is much smaller, leaner and dense.

This is why athletic people tend to look leaner but weigh more.
So you are not a freak at all.

Do not let the hollywood drug addicted actresses , who drink and do drugs be any type of role models to look up to.

You are young and healthy this is what is important.

Having issues and questions about your body as a teenager is so so normal.

Good luck sweetie.
head up and keep that body fit and healthy.

You go girl.

Answer 2

there is definatly nothing wrong with you! why do u feel that way? you sound very pretty and a 25" waist is not fat! it's perfect. if ur athletic then u probably have alot of muscle and that's why people think u look skinnier then u really are, but that's not a bad thing because a healthy looking body is better than one that looks anorexic nd thats not flattering on anyone. u are also a teen (as am i, i'm 13 and gonna be 14 in less then a month 2....lol) so all teens get some acne and then u get over it. i too have been told that i have more of a woman's body. i'm cup size 34B and i do have curves. some people my age are either really flat and skinny or still have some baby fat so they still don't have a woman's body, so we're lucky.....lol. so u are definatly ok and u gotta have some confidence and flaunt wut u got! hope i helped nd good luck!

Answer 3

Your fine. When your an athlete you have to keep in mind that your gonna have more tone/curve becuz your active alot and i sure you eat some what healthy. Dont look at how much you weigh cuz muscle weighs more than fat!! just hang in there i am nineteen played soccer since i was 9 so i know how you feel being on the curvy side but i was not blessed with 34c's i still stuck with 34b k when older you will so satisfied with your body. You will not have to show a bunch of skin to get attention cuz you have a curvy body and you can be simple and classy and get the right attention with a good reputation.

Answer 4

Woaa girl before u give all ur info away on the Internet...

If u do have a woman's body then it just means ur maturing faster than most girls. And im sorry to say that u R a little big chested 4 ur age but that's nothing u can fix. and so what big butt?(lol) and acne? im so sorry but that's every 13/14 yr old thing. Just grab some facial care stuff quick. I reccomend proactiv or Clinique skin care products but proactiv is supposed to do wonders (i haven't tried it yet so...)
but as long as ur active and u take care of urself then dont worry about what other...people..thin- whoa i jst totally sounded like my mom but really worry if ur maturing faster and kids tease u laugh back cause their turn is coming. But if other p-pul don't see a problem... Then why should u?

But hey i would remove this question w/ all of ur info on it. doesn't it make u uncomfortable spouting all that out?

Answer 5

Hey, what you are going through is normal. Most teenage girls your age are experiencing the same thing. 130 lbs is a good weight shows that you are healthy. You might look like a110lbs because you are petite in certain areas for example you are not very tall. What your mom said about you having a woman's body more than a teenagers body, that is ok, because lots of girls went through that they mature more physically than other girls.(Speaking from experience). But sooner or later, you will feel better about your self you are still growing Don't worry one day your entire body is gonna catch up with everything else and you won't feel the way you feel now.

Answer 6

NO!!!! YOU ARE NOT A FREAK! If you look like you weigh 110, that's amazing! You really do look skinny! And 130 is NOT overweight for your age! They are not trying to be nice, they want you to stop worrying about how you look because you look great! And having the body of a woman, is not usually a bad thing, older guys will start to notice you! Have fun with your life, and stop being so self-concious, ok?

❤ Cali Girl

Answer 7

No you aren't. Since you're athletic you will weigh more than you actually look because of the muscel. (Muscel weighs more than fat.) You're normal and you're also lucky. People with some curves look much better than people who are anorexic. 25 around the waist isn't fat. It's on the small side actually. Most people around 13 or 14 have acne because of puberty. It will probably go away by the time puberty is over. Be happy. I hope that this helps. :D

Answer 8

That's perfectly healthy!
Don't change. For anything.
I'm really self concisous too, I have anorexia nervosa, I'm 113 pounds, and 5'3" too. But I can't exercise because I have a bad leg, and I feel so bad about it and feel fat and stuff.

You seem like the perfect model of a 13 year old- not the belemic cheerleaders who never get a pimple or anything. :] Don't change, remember. Just try to stay positive, and if you feel fat, try reading some books about how to boost your self esteem. Good luck!

Answer 9

OMG! U n me r soo much alike...13 (almost 14) and I weigh almost the same (I lost 30 then I gained 15) But anyway...muscle does weigh some...I've been measuring my waist too but that is normal if ur starting to get a hip which is showing ur becoming an adult (which is good because that makes u look like a teen not a tween) and just try to eat healthy (my weight is important because I have health problems) u just want to watch wat you eat alittle don't let it control ur life though....like who wants to remember their teenage yrs as being a "I got to watch my weight 24/7" thing? Be yourself, have fun, and if everyone says u look skinny u probably r

Answer 10

honey every girl is self-concious of their body at your age, and you ARE ok.
There's nothing wrong with you at all.
You're just growing up a bit quicker than most girls at your age.
For your acne, ask your mom about Proactiv Solution.
I swear it's the best thing you can use.
You can also help get rip of pimples quick by applying clearasyl before bed time.
Clearasyl is a cream you put on your pimples, available at any drugstore.
this will help.

You'll continue feeling akward until about highschool most likely. I know I did.