some months ago i had a crush on a girl we started dating all everything was going fine! one friend of hers told me that she liked me too also! suddenly she started a relationship with another guy and we stopped of course seeing eachother! now after months i will propably meet her tonight at a party of a common friend! should i be very cold with her cause she hurt me at past *like i want* or should i be friendly with her cause she didnt do anything bad? it is sure that she will come speak to me and dont ignore me!
2007-03-10 22:47:54 · 10 answers · asked by manosn1b 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be a gentleman. Keep it cool, and just find a way of letting her know that you are moving on.
Do not give her a new chance to hurt you again-
2007-03-10 22:53:53 · answer #1 · answered by Nyaru 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it can be hard, but be friendly. I know that you may resent her, but in the end, the only chance you have if you still care, is to be nice. Be the better person, and show be your best. Be friendly, but treat her as you would treat everyone else.
We men tend to think that once a woman says "no, I dont care", deep inside her heart she does. Don`t ever be caught out by that. If she does feel something for you, she will make the move. If not, well she was not worth it. Either way, I think its quite low of her to have a crush on you, and get with another guy. Its childish, plain and simple.
So be the better man, be nice, go there - but go there for yourself and have a really good timne. If she talks to you, talk to her, as you would to everyone else, but don`t show her special treatment. If she comes around, fine, if not, well, thats not cool. Form experience, I can tell you, that being nasty/cold and trying desperate measures can make things VERY bad.
Just be yourself!!
2007-03-11 06:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by K S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like this girl dont be ''cold'' with her be friendly and kind. The last thing a girl wants is a guy who likes her ignoring her all night acting ignorant around her.
So be flirty and friendly with her
2007-03-11 06:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jade L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friendly. Act like a gentleman. Don't e cold towards her. You guys are still friends, rite? Be yourself!
2007-03-11 06:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cold. The colder the better. If she comes to speak to you, say loud enough to hear that the rash you caught from her is all cleared up now.
2007-03-11 06:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its natural you want to be cold towards her coz she hurt you but if she hasnt done anything wrong then you have no reason to treat her badly. sounds like you arent over it but if you want her to speak to you just be friendly and it should be fine.
2007-03-11 06:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dnt act cold or friendly. act distant if she talks to ya give her one word answers wile at the party make it seem like u r always doing sumat seem unatainable
2007-03-11 06:51:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you still like her you should be friedly b/c she might just come back around to go out with you. If you don't like her any more then it's o.k. to be mean b/c you don't care.
2007-03-11 07:24:30 · answer #8 · answered by SunShine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a gentleman and bump to her at the party and ask her how is she now and how everything 's going so far.
be casual
2007-03-11 06:51:39 · answer #9 · answered by 00_tyradjh_00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "hi, how are you" and go mix with other people.
2007-03-11 06:53:05 · answer #10 · answered by nev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋