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hello guys :-)) I need to know some of your imagination....but i need imagination that works for reality... Umm so this is the situation of a mother that when the daughter is away she talks against her with her son and when the son is away she talks against her son with her daughter. How can the son spy on the mother and daughter with some type of technology to hear and record them. The son has no camera and no tape recorder but a computer in the room where the back-stabbing take place!! Please do help...situation is getting worse and the son needs some type of evidence...

2007-03-10 22:42:06 · 6 answers · asked by Ant ;-) 2 in Family & Relationships Family

6 answers

1) Burn your James Bond collection and stop referring to yourself in the third person unless you want me to get irritated with you.

2a) Approach your sister and be-friend her. Be aware that he could turn against you in a double agent style fashion, but its a risk you're going to have to take.

2b) Tell your sister your point of view and suggest joining forces to confront your Mother and her twisted ways.

3) Read and then re-read Sun Tzu's Art of War and perhaps more importantly (given this particular situation), Machievelli's "The Prince".

4) Conduct a counter-insurgency with your sister. Start small with light dinner time references to your Mothers more odeous comments. Tell her you wish to hear no more of her views re your sister.

5) Direct confrontation. In any war there will come a time where a direct engagement with your enemy is inevitable. As you will discover in Sun Tzu's imortal work- you must effectively manage the battle and manipulate the situation to acheive the desired out come with minimal losses on your side. (Always give the enemy the option for retreat. When cornered an enemy will quickly see the situation as helpless and invaribly fight to the death.)

6) In the likely event that points 1-5 come to nought. Move out and cut off all links with your Mother and perhaps your sister as well. Harsh and as painful as it may be, your mental and emotional health is more important than any loyalty you may hold to a family member.

Remember- what your Mother is doing may be considered by some to be a form of mental and emotional abuse or (some might go so far as to suggest-) torture.

Remain strong and clear headed in every move you make. Anticipate your enemies next moves and conduct your strategy accordingly.

Never start a battle you can't win and never start a battle you don't intend to win, unless it somehow benefits your strategy.

The Iceman.

P.S. DO NOT DO ANYTHING ILLEGAL!

2007-03-10 23:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by The Iceman 3 · 0 0

Be careful of recording your mother's conversations. In some states it is illegal to record someone without their knowledge. However recording her is probably the best idea I've heard. Also the Art of War is a great read and might actually help you.

2007-03-11 00:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by The OTHER Boelyn Chic 5 · 0 0

I had same situation with a backstabbing so called friend your computer keep it on you have windows media player?or your sister/the daughter has skype?When this girl i knew was talking **** i couldnt prove it to my cousin so i got her in the same room as my computer while she was talking i just switched on windows media player and hit record before she started speaking just normal as i was working on computer after it was done i pressed stopped.Every word she spoke against my cousin or others was recorded.So try it it worked for me.You can also record if you have a cellphone/mobile click record and stop after its done it gets recorded.I did it both on windows media player and cell/mobile phone for backup.Both worked best of luck!

2007-03-10 22:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 1 0

Just hide in the room and when they least expect it, pop out and tell them you were just doing some cleaning, don't let you interrupt what they were saying. Then sit down and stare at them.

2007-03-11 00:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

just hide in the room and listen to them talk

2007-03-10 23:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

no, you need to buy a special license to become a professional spy

2007-03-10 22:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by gadgetki 3 · 0 0

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