ok..i like this guy. i've liked him for awhile now, but we've never kissed or anything. my best friend just started to like this boy and she's already kissed him and i feel like im moving to slow. i really wanna make a move, but im scared too. am i moving to slow? how do i deal with this. PLEASE HELP!
2007-03-10 22:24:59 · 10 answers · asked by hey hey hey! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay first of all you've got to ask yourself this:
a) Do I want to make a move, because everyone else is and I'm scared I'm too slow.
b) I think the time is right and I'm totally prepared and want to do it.
If it's a then I wouldn't! If he's a good chap who really likes you, he won't mind if you take a little longer then other girls.
2007-03-10 22:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by Janine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not moving too slow, it seems like he is though, if say, you've been dating for over a month.....he should have kissed you already....but on the other hand it he knows you are gone over him.....then perhaps he's waiting for you to make a move......it really depends how long you've been seeing each other......but if the feeling is right......you can take as long as you want to make a move.
2007-03-11 06:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by BS2NITE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wave.
No go on wave. Lift your hand and approximate with motion.
There sailing into the sunset is your friend and this guy! (Lovely ship too...)
You must confess your feelings to the boy NOW! Before its too late. It may already be, hence my bittingly amusing wit above.
Yes, you are slow. You're like a turtle with two legs.
Get your **** in gear and take a risk- you'll always regret it if you don't.
Best of luck and I hope it all works out for you.
The Iceman.
2007-03-11 06:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by The Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush things. Its not a race. It sounds like you are pretty young so really take your time. You've got a lot of life ahead of you and there will be plenty of other boys. If this one loses interest because you haven't kissed him yet then you don't want to be with him anyway because he is going to become the kind of guy that wants sex. Enjoy being young and don't do anything you don't want to do.
2007-03-11 06:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by Patrick E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not slow. Why are you in a hurry. Take your time to know your guy. Let him make his move. It's more romantic this way. Good luck!
2007-03-11 06:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls love confidence n so do guys...if you can show that you're all that then the guy will b eating out of your hand...b confident n that means DO NOT B AFRAID to make your move n show so attitude
2007-03-11 06:39:21 · answer #6 · answered by ¿¿¿jeff??? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better to take it slow. your best friend already kissed because she was a hoe.
2007-03-11 06:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by sadlonelylife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that how you are, then stay that way. if your not ready to give it up then don't. It's nothing worse when a girl thinks she wants to but then changes her mind at the last minute.
2007-03-11 06:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Big 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not moving to slow, everyone one has their own paste. just follow your instints and you would be fine. dont follow others, make your own decisions. :)
2007-03-11 06:30:36 · answer #9 · answered by hi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are moving slow.you call him at home if you are not shy girl and he likes sexy girls.you have sex with him,if not that situation mail at
2007-03-11 06:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by aman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋