my ex dumped me ova txt about 2 weeks ago & is now asking for me back. no chance! y are men so indecisive, so comfortable playing with girls emotions. nearly all of my m8s that got dumped had their ex's crawling bk soona or later-whats that about?!
2007-03-10 22:07:40 · 26 answers · asked by helen b 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
boys are into flavors and as long as your yummy, they are yours..after a while they wanna try something else. so when they do come back to you..you will be really stupid to take him back unless you guys shared a real relationship to begin with.and in case you go with your 'heart' as all girls do,just be sure this time to have a back up boyfriend and do not give this guy as much importance as you did before,or you'll send signals like he can walk in and out of your life as he pleases~ dont let that happen.
2007-03-10 22:28:07 · answer #1 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dumping by text is pretty low... but women sometimes come crawling back too. Because:
a. They thought the grass was greener
b. They were having some kind of personal crisis when they did the dumping
c. They're bored & lonely
d. It made them realise what they had
2007-03-11 07:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by zoot 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They keep coming back for the same reason you dumped them -- deep down, they are weak. On the other hand, if he dumped you, and he is coming back....I'd guess there was some communication between the two of you that changed his mind, or gave him some hope it would get better.
2007-03-10 22:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by BS2NITE 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
nicely on account which you're his gf, inspire him to return alongside with you on your mothers, fathers, and grandfathers. or maybe inspire her to return alongside with you. yet another decision could be to inspire her to hold alongside her new guy! All those scenerios does no longer go away those 2 on my own. i urge you to benefit a delightful relationship together with her. She is afterall your boyfriends daughters mom. She merits your appreciate. how are you able to appreciate his daughter while you at the instant are not respecting her mom! stop being catty do you somewhat have a reason to no longer have confidence her? And why in simple terms her? you be attentive to it takes 2 to tangle, so in the event that they have been to party it particularly is rarely all her fault come on now!
2016-11-24 20:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably out of loneliness. Possibly they thought they'd find someone else, didn't, and there you go.
I've never done this sort of thing myself (I tend to be the one who gets dumped, and have never asked an ex out), but as a guy, that's my best guess.
2007-03-10 22:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by SayDoYouWantToGoSeeAMovie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because it didn't work out with the other girl he dumped you for. It's called being 2nd best - don't go there. Tell him you've got much better things to do than hang out with him since he showed his true colours.
2007-03-10 22:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mishell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It works the other way round as well. I have never asked one of my ex's back, but a few have asked for me to go back to them. To which I gave them an abrupt two word answer, and it wasn't "Okay then." Please don't genralise all men just cause you've had a crappy experience. Have you ever thought that your choice in men may have something to do with it?
2007-03-10 22:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
he dumped you by a text!!!! i don't think that guys have the balls to do it face to face! what a loser!!! it's because their not getting what the want from elsewhere so they see you as the next best thing! the trouble is us "women"dumb twats fall for it and take em back! you stay strong and tell him to f££k right off, you deserve far better...i wish you well
2007-03-10 23:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by Just passing the time! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be "in" a guy needs:
-Popular mates
-No brain
-A girlfriend
You are the main aspect of his "social well-being". It is obvious that he's been dumped lately, and he needs you. I say don't let him walk all over you. Dump him.
2007-03-10 22:25:04 · answer #9 · answered by KateBea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The simple answer is that you and your m8's pick losers for boyfriends. Maybe you want to do that so you'll feel like you have the upper hand in the relationship. who knows??
2007-03-10 22:11:15 · answer #10 · answered by summit_of_human_intellect 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋