i love a girl and we date every week. I still havent told her my feelings neither have i kissed her yet.
is it better to tell her about my feelings and then kiss her or is better to kiss her first and then tell her about my feelings?
i heard that girls start loosing interest as soon as the hear the world love. is it true?
What should i do. I really love her and for me she seems to be the woman of my life.
Thanks for any advice.
2007-03-10 20:56:03 · 15 answers · asked by Johanpaul 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let nature take it's course.
2007-03-10 20:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were her I would think something is wrong if you haven't tried to kiss me after weeks of dating. I'm sure you just wanted to respect her but you don't want her to think you're gay or not THAT into her.
I would go ahead and kiss her before she thinks something wrong. I guess you could do all in the same night. I wouldn't go as far to tell her you love her. That might freak her out.
Just let her know you really enjoy all the time y'all have spent together. Tell her what you think of her. " You are a really wonderful person and I'm glad I met you" or "I'm so lucky to have you in my life and could see spending the rest of my life with you" It depends how long you have been dating to be able to tell her how much you like her though. Don't over do it.
Hope this helps!
2007-03-11 06:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by LRS1085 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls only lose interest if you tell her you love her and she doesn't feel the same way back. It's probably a good idea to kiss her and then tell her you love her, because she'll have a good idea of what's coming. If you kiss her and don't tell her, she's already got the picture. And if you tell her and don't kiss her, it doesn't really make sense, y'know? Go for it, but be careful. And don't say anything you don't mean. You'll regret it.
2007-03-11 06:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by Joey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first question would be how long have you been going out? Also, when you are on a date what do the two of you talk about when you two are alone together? what does she say/act when you bring her something or take her to dinner/concert/ or whatever you youngin's do these day.
before you do anything just go out like the both of you do and study her body language I am sure you could get in depth source from here on that
Is she very religious? there are more questions but them I would sound like some sort of counselor
You can always email me if you have any questions.
good luck, many blessings,
Jen
2007-03-11 06:15:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, you always gotta let the girl you want business...now don't tell you love her just yet, specially if you just started dating...love should come after months...tell her you like her a you would like n that you miss her. Take things slow, don't rush!!! cuz the girl might get scared, and DO NOT lose control, always b confident cuz girl love that.
Man, dont b afraid to go 4 the kiss, just get close to her n reach her lips...if you guy are still dating then that means she digs you n if she digs you then she want to kiss you
2007-03-11 06:07:14 · answer #5 · answered by ¿¿¿jeff??? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think you should kiss her first. If she seems a bit akward in the kiss and a bit withdrawn then I don't think it will be the right time to tell her. But if she's pretty passionate in it then go for it and tell her.
It's funny because girls think that guys aren't intrested in the mention of love. :P. I don't think it's true for most women.
2007-03-11 06:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by Janine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't be honest with the woman that you want to spend the rest of your life with then there isn't much hope for you. Just tell her. If it puts her off then she wasn't looking to you for a committment anyway. I would tell her my feelings before i kissed her as the feeling of intimacy will be much stronger after you have opened up to each other.
2007-03-11 06:01:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mishell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the moment. tell her you just feel so strong for and if she says I know me to grab her hand pull her toward you give a soft short kiss and say I think Im fallen in love W / you
2007-03-11 06:14:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u? how u know she is the one u date her once a week meanning???? I cant tell u how to do this becuz it is in ur heart what ur heart tells u to do is the best thing to do u have answer ur own question . be honest to urself and be happy with u after that everything is easy
2007-03-11 06:02:43 · answer #9 · answered by chance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont any action so fast
just be calm
be friends
tell your likings & dislikings
you will need time to know her
friendship is the first step for love and the last one also
2007-03-11 06:00:28 · answer #10 · answered by catrina a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sloooooww Down. You trying to do more then is needed. Just relaxx and things will fall into place.
2007-03-11 06:01:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋