Hello.
I am a 22 years old Japanese girl, while I was 18 I had boyfriend he was from America.
While I got 19 he made me pregnant I didn’t know it, but I told him to get marry with me but he didn’t and escaped to America.
I gave birth to the baby, now he is 2 years old; it was very difficult to me.
My family didn’t like what I have done, because of Japanese thinking of way.
They made me go out of their house, so I rented a small apartment.
I am working alone, but my salary is too low, because I am just graduated of school.
I just need a man to take care of me, a real man to be my boyfriend.
I know about these Japanese men, they never like to be my boyfriend, because they are so serious and strike, and they always think and follow of Japanese customs, they don’t like me.
But do you think can I find a foreigner boyfriend?
I have been alone and looking for some one since 2 years but I couldn’t, I am going to lose hope.
Do you think foreigners also think like Japanese?
Please tell me the truth please….
2007-03-10 20:38:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
#1. he didn't make you get pregnant. you had sex with him, and it happened. getting pregnant at a young age has it's consequences. you have to deal with them as they come.
#2. you do NOT need a man to take care of you. you can do just as well on your own. chances are that japanese men are not going to accept a single mother, simply because of their ways of thought.
#3. do the best you can for your child. if you find someone, then great. save up money, move to a different country.
2007-03-10 20:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you are in it deep. Right now you should not be thinking about getting a foreign boyfriend, which, the way you put it, demeans the asian race. Think more about dragging yourself out of the pit. I think your family is appalling if they could never teach you to be careful when you were younger, and then throwing you out of the house. Try to find a job, and look up on the bright side. No one here on Yahoo can really help you. You have to help yourself. No foreign boyfriend can help you like that either. Obviously foreigners don't think like Japanese unless they were raised in Japan/have grown up around Japanese culture. Be independent, and hope Lady Luck comes your way.
2007-03-11 05:45:04 · answer #2 · answered by Joey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems you do need a man n not just to be your boyfriend but to treat you the way any woman and mother deserves to be treated. this guy from america was no man at all, just a low down cowardly dog! from what ive seen of the asian culture, im surprised your family didnt hunt this dog down and......, well, you know the rest. Dont lose hope . Find yourself a decent bloke from your country, and dont just settle for anyone because of the situation you have found yourself in! Things can only get better for you, so get out there and find a decent guy to take care of you, and your child! theres plenty of good fish in the sea.
2007-03-11 05:57:29 · answer #3 · answered by otsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I see alot of caucasians dating asian women in general. I don't think that you have to limit yourself to "foreigners" in general. The question is, are you basically looking for a man to take care of you and your child?
2007-03-11 05:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by Kimmie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely. There will be sum1 in America who will like you. Socialise alot and be honest and freindly. Dont lose hope. There will be someone who needs you and who maybe in d same situation as you are in. Do not worry. Keep looking. There are many americans who Like Japanese Chinese etc. All d Best and keep looking!
2007-03-11 05:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by la_di_dah 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't look for a boyfriend.Just try to focus on the work and on your son and the right man will come sooner or later!Best wishes!
2007-03-11 05:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...in my own humble oppinion, I don't care if u have a kid or not, just as long as u can get to my heart the right way...Love can do some wonderful things
2007-03-11 05:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by ¿¿¿jeff??? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are still in japan, then try dating someone in the military stationed over there. your best bet is a sailor in the Navy.
2007-03-11 05:55:48 · answer #8 · answered by allkoei 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iam brown and i would love to be with an asian girl, so yes theres hope. the reason i would love to be with asian is cuz i think there very intersting, so i would be with you if i knew you.
2007-03-11 06:08:25 · answer #9 · answered by danielj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all people think like that. it's messed up. it isn't your fault though, and i'm sure something good will come of it. i like asians:p. anyways, if you wanna chat, IM me.
2007-03-11 05:45:06 · answer #10 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋