I had to admit that I have many suitors. but sometimes I am hiding because of them. I cannot work or move comfortably. How can I get rid of them?
2007-03-10 20:24:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Having too many suitors is to be looked at from two angles: 1- u are a charming individual i.e. a good catch, or 2- u have something that these people want. Giving suitors an idea that their presences makes u uncomfortable or that u notice their presence or letting them know so makes getting u a challenge. Just be easy, go with the flow, window shop but dont buy, i.e. good morning to u all but i have a mind of my own & u arent going to take me nowhere that i dont agree to.
2007-03-10 20:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if you just have many suitors or if you had all the suitors . Be honest and tell them that your not interested in pursuing a relationship at this time and if you want to be completely honest add the "or ever" part . They say the truth hurts, but if these people keep chasing you it probably means they are also spending their hard earned money and you need to tell them to move on. Compare them spending their money on pursuing you to them putting imaginary cash into an imaginary bank. They never had it to begin with and they will never get any return interest from it.
Don't hide stand tall and proud when your honest and live life to the fullest, if you stay hiding the right suitor might never find you.
2007-03-11 05:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure having more than one suitor makes a person feel good, at least at the beginning. This, however, may lead to problems though. If you really don't feel fine about having more than one suitor, then you should just be direct with the ones you really aren't into. Good luck.
2007-03-11 08:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by prudence z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had. But I can manage to call them all off. Only one man is allowed in my loving relationship.
How come you can't?
Furthermore, it's not fair for those suitors you're not serious with. It would heartbreak them more than when you're honestly kind to them and tell them off.
It's also an act of respect and gratitude as well.
2007-03-11 09:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by Timeless - watcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky you. But I'm sure not all of them are even close to what you want in a life partner. Select the best 2 or 3 and narrow to the best one.
2007-03-12 02:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its flattering to have so many suitors. it does mean that you are desirable. just be honest with your feelings to them. dont let them feel they have the chance to be your boyfriend if you dont like them. be straightforward in a nice way.
2007-03-15 01:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by ilyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Tell the ones you no longer to see that you are seeing someone exclusively.
2007-03-11 08:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to get rid of them? If you did would you have to ask if it's bad to have them? It sounds like at least part of you likes having many suiters.
2007-03-11 05:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by Northstar 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you mean you are dating multiple people at the same time? Is this while your in a relationship or not?
2007-03-11 05:32:31 · answer #9 · answered by Mike J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move to another state.
2007-03-11 10:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋