I find myself doing this, and I really dislike it and wish I wouldn't do it. Are there any other women who experience moods that cause you to be the occasional jealous *****? I hate it when I'm like that, but sometimes its like I can't stop?
2007-03-10 18:50:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its a thing women do, and thats why Im single now.
I cant stand you crazy bitches.
And most women realize they are complete psycho whores the very moment the guys realize they cant handle the crap anymore.
Good thing for you is that you realize you do it, and you can stop it now. If you feel it coming on, just try to stay away from the damn guy until you cool down.
2007-03-10 18:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by Thats me...A to the D 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I used to yes. I started saying whatever bothered me. If you hurt my feelings I said something. If a guy looked at me condensending, I said something. Every little thing, I didn't let slide. After a few years I realized taht I was not acting out with men anymore. I called every incident naturally when and if they were rude, so I had no hidden grudges (which I didn't even know that I had). Looking back, I realized taht I believed that I was high manitence if I had a need or got frustrated with my differences wtih my partner. I didnt' realize taht i subciously felt that I should never casue a stir, and so I let some things build and build and then I would b i t c h for 'no reason' and had no control over it. Now I just say 'hey, that hurt my feelings. That was rude.' Also, I have kicked some family members out of my life that made me feel 'less then' and that my needs should never be more then what they are willing to give
2007-03-11 03:56:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its because your not strong in yourself. You dont need a man to make you happy. If you are happy about yourself you will be happy in your relationship. I sometimes get jealous with my Fiance, but I ask my self why? Is it because I cant trust him~ Or because Im not good enough~ things like that go threw a womens brain. At least you see what its doing to your relationship. I give you credit. Some women just play it off and think its ok. Your flesh is running your body. What is your heart telling you???
2007-03-11 04:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by litmohrly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lot's of women do. But please understand that a man it's just plain disrespectful and ultimately, the apologies won't be accepted anymore. You'll drive him right into another woman's arms.
In my wife's case, it was apparently stress. But the damage is severe and lasting. We're 10 years into our marriage and although I love her, it's our kids that have kept me from leaving her. I just plain don't like her anymore and would rather be with someone else.
The funny thing is, she has become so self-centered that I really think she is clueless to the amount of effort I have to put into avoiding her and also how miserable I am.
2007-03-11 04:08:50 · answer #4 · answered by Leroy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal and i'm sure all of us women do it at some point. Try to find out why your insecure and what makes you do it like the moment before it happens are you fighting and if so about what? Those sorts of things can help. I always find i get like that before my monthly i have drastic mood swings and i provoke fights for no apparent reason.
2007-03-11 03:53:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I just wanted to say that the wife and I got a good laugh from Arrand D's answer, thanks. Most likely PMS as everyone is answering. Thank God my current wife doesn't suffer from PMS like my first one did. I feel sorry for the ladies and their significant other that suffer from this very real problem. If you can honestly rule out PMS you might want to seek out some counseling. And Arrand hang in there not all women have PMS.
2007-03-11 04:21:04 · answer #6 · answered by iluvs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be hormones, check yourself. go to the doctor or a phychologist, sometimes women do that and dont know why.
do something or you will loose your hubby. eventually he will get tired of you just getting after him for nothing at all.
good luck!
2007-03-11 03:53:44 · answer #7 · answered by chik_nice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife does it to me all the time.....it is called "being a *****" and is usually accompanied by a real disorder called bi-polar insecurity. Get help immediately before you go to far and he starts beating you.
2007-03-11 03:57:09 · answer #8 · answered by John K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this happens when I am PMSing. Is that when it happens for you? If it happens other times besides that, then you might be too stressed out about something, and need to channel that stress somehow!
2007-03-11 03:53:25 · answer #9 · answered by Susan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I get frustrated I try not to take it out on him, he is very special to me and I don't want to drive him away over something as stupid as frustration or PMS...lifes a b*tch but there is no need to take it out on others.
2007-03-11 03:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋