ok i'm the one that wants to leave her.. because there are problems that make me think we wont be together sooner or later... so why not break now or it will hurt more later on.. i'm deciding to tell her a few weeks later because i wont be seeing her anytime before that... we still talk on phone and chat on msn. i try to not talk much... but i just automatically want to talk.. in summary, i still like her... but problems are too much... so i think have to leave her... what else can i do? any other solutions?.......and how do i tell her to break up? =\
2007-03-10 18:48:32 · 4 answers · asked by tmackun135 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you already have taken your decision.
More you'll wait and more harder it will be for you 2.
To wait is the worst thing to do : this feeling will grow and take too much place in your stomach. You have to free yourself as soon as possible with that feeling. And the only solution is the break. It can be just for a little time, maybe 1 month for exemple. But it doesn't work very often.
Tell her face to face, and without pity (pity is a thing to avoid in that case)
good luck
2007-03-10 19:21:33 · answer #1 · answered by illidashenvale 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her like you say you do. You should take the time to talk to her about the problems in the relationship. The biggest problem with relationships is lack of communication.
2007-03-11 03:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by Woody 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its hard, but if thats how you feel, then thats what you have to do. its no fun leading a lie. and she wouldn't be happy if she knew you were in the relationship feeling that way. id break it off nicely. its hard but it has to be done.
2007-03-11 03:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by Emilyy<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not fair to string her along when you know what you are going to do. Do the manly thing and be honest, now.
2007-03-11 03:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋