so im young ish.. teens..
and im scared to have a boyfriend.
a few guys have liked me... and in return
iv had my mini crushes... and thats whats wierd.
i can majorly crush on guys.. but once i find out that he likes me too i chicken out.. im ready for one, i can feel it... i just somehow get scared.... whats wrong withe me? how can i change it?
2007-03-10 18:42:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to put yourself out there. If you get asked out, accept his offer and go out with him. Hey, you could even ask a guy out yourself. I think it's a major relief on me if I get asked out by a girl. It's a stress reliever and also pretty flattering.
2007-03-10 18:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well trust me your feelings are completely normal and you shouldn't be afraid of them however don't feel rushed or pressured into a relationship just because you think its the cool thing to do. I can speak from experience and I honestly wished that I took a little more time to enjoy my singleness and to take those years to build friendships for the Future and also to maybe start to get to know someone before just jumping into a relationship. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you at all. You are going through the same thing as millions of other girls and guys are going through so don't worry! I do think that you seem like a very mature young woman who is ready for a good relationship and my only advice is don't rush through it all, you have got to enjoy it!
2007-03-11 03:52:59 · answer #2 · answered by nikesoccer4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. You are just shy. Don't waste your time persuing these "mini-crushes" they are mostly just big eyes at good looks. If you think a boy likes you, don't just jerk back. Talk to him as if you don't even know it. As you become more comfortable with the idea of actually flirting and being with him, it will come out more that you like him. Don't listen to people that say just to go for it and stop being chicken- that is foolish. When you are truly ready to talk, to flirt, or to date a guy, you will be comfortable doing so with just a little bit of nervousness.
2007-03-11 03:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
teenish means 13-19 so lets say your 15.
Your kind of new to the entire scene, youre still a pup. He'll Im 23 and Ive been through a bunch of crap and Im still new to the game.
Watch out for those crushes though, those are the heartbreakers that turn nice girls into bitter women.
Just try a couple of things out, date a couple of guys. If they call you a whore tell them to screw themselves. Let them know you are dating them that you arent boyfriend and girlfriend, that you want to explore your options while youre young. Instead of wasting time getting locked into one person and wasting good learning years at a young age.
2007-03-11 03:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by Thats me...A to the D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing worng with you. You just need to learn how to learn that fear is normal & courage is what seperates the singles from the couples. I've never dated & I'm in my 20s so that should prove to you that I just don't have the nerve yet. I will have it one day though. Until then I'm going to be single.
Have a good day.
2007-03-11 04:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by Jarod R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorta the same way. I'm in my teens and i sorta get a bit scared to have a bf. Maybe its coz ive never had one so i don't know how its going to work out. I know that i am ready too.
2007-03-11 03:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get him as a boyfriend and don't make him ur #1 priority.
You have other stuff to deal with like...school, money, ur future jobs. Boyfriends are fun, i would advise you to not make him your number 1, if something goes wrong.
If he breaks up with you (im sure he won't) and you have an emotional breakdown, that will affect other things!
2007-03-11 03:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by animalcrossingchamp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with you honey. thats natural... it goes with your age.. slowly slowly u'll start lking it and ull be more comfortable with your love life.. and crushes are good .. but make sure you chose the right guy to date around...
wish u luck...
Deeps
2007-03-11 04:33:40 · answer #8 · answered by Deeps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey ,,I've just seen Ur Q ,and it sounded really familiar you know ,, my Ex. actually liked to have crushes on guys but she ends up hating them when they know about her crush ,or they like her back,,so i think your case is just as normal as all of u girls,, i say go for it:d
2007-03-11 03:52:07 · answer #9 · answered by mr ML 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur a teen.......not very matured 4 serius relationship..............either wait or be confident n go 4 one........wat the hell r u getin scared of!!!
2007-03-11 03:48:34 · answer #10 · answered by avril 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋