Im i over reacting or Should i be mad?
2007-03-10 18:40:57 · 7 answers · asked by Hector 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What should i do? Most of her friend are guys, well she has more guy friends than girl friends so idk, thats the main reason i feel a bit weird about it.
2007-03-10 18:47:10 · update #1
I asked this because on feb 14 i had my appendix removed and she was at the hospital and everything after the operation but 3 days after this she went out with her friend and i couldnt even walk... I cant see her as much either because he mom is very strict, i probably go out with her twice a month for like 6 hours and she went out with her friends for more than 12 hours... that made me feel soo bad.. and she told me that she didnt want to dissapoint them... and i was in pain hearing her say all that... physical pain and emotionally... i couldnt stand up...
2007-03-10 18:51:32 · update #2
Yeah, you should be mad. You should be #1 and the gf's should understand that. If she can't see you as #1 she's not the one for you
2007-03-10 18:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by uknowme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While you might want to consider where each of you want this relationship to go and at what pace, you shouldn't really be upset with her. Despite the time, caring for someone is based on the individual. It doesn't mean she doesn't care for you and isn't serious about the relationship- just that she isn't ready to give you her undivided attention. A girl can go to her friends with stuff she can't go to her boyfriend about...I don't care how caring or sensitive you are...men and women think differently. Right now, she needs more of the advice and feelings that she gets from them. As she gets more serious about you, it will shift. And there isn't a standard time for when this happens. Give it time.
2007-03-11 03:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, this is a very complicated thing. in this 'girls unwritten rulebook' your girls come before your guy. maybe her friends are giving her a hard time, so she feels obligated to spend equal time with them. and also, being in a serious relationship is scary and she probably wants to stay close to her friends. theres a whole bunch of things that could be the reason for this. i would have an open talk with her and tell her how you feel, dont even make her respond right away let her think about it, but dont get mad yet.
2007-03-11 03:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by Emilyy<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a girl for you. Most of them care more about what their friends think than you. I know, it's sad, but true. They're always trying to impress other girls, never the man. Girls are always at competition with other girls.
2007-03-11 03:45:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's kind of rude of her. Anywhere under a year I would say that's normal. But if you've been committed to two years of your lives together, I'd say you are one of her best friends, if not her best friend.
2007-03-11 03:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by Breez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your concerned let her know, trust your gut feeling. sometimes we need our friends to help keep our sanity. some things are easier to tell your girlfriends.
2007-03-11 03:45:12 · answer #6 · answered by MaMaMiLaJo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that that is kind of sad...
2007-03-11 03:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋