Why do men tell other women how much they like them and want to be with them when they already have a girlfriend, and when the woman says, "it's her or me" they get mad?
2007-03-10 18:39:04 · 28 answers · asked by jabegall 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's easy becaue they are not real men. Only a stupid man would consider seeing someone else when they have someone at home. And when they get mad about meeting a woman that has morals about not dating a man that is already taken they don't know what to do. My advise just leaved this guy alone because he'll never leave his girlfriend for you like he might say that he will. Just find someone that is not taken and that has the time to devote his love and respect for you.
2007-03-10 18:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just the nature of the beast. A man is a hunter and a hunter doesn't just get one animal and go home. Men (hunters) get as many as possible while they can. Way do you think it so hard for a man to be with just one woman. After a man gets the hunt(woman) he has nothing else to look forward to. Women are just like men. They just hide it better.
2007-03-11 03:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of them are insecure, knowing the women they are with are too good for them, especially after specific mistakes they've done. Perhaps some are truly undeserving.
But that's just an opinion.
And a hasty one at that.
They get mad because they know they're reaching the end of the unwise balancing act they're doing, perhaps.
But I always say it's a case to case basis for all relationships.
2007-03-11 03:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by ficklefeather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men do this--but if the choices you make in men always seem to wind up like this---you are choosing the wrong guys. You know you can do better--and the statements that you say the men make show that the conversation is NOT worth having--so move on sister. The choice for him should never be me or her--it should be take the door or the window---get out. take it slow and be nice----good luck
2007-03-11 03:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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First of all. Why Would you be with a guy like that?
Secondly, a female who knows how to play the games right. Should know not to fall for a guy who has a girlfriend/
The guy is a loser, and whatever else he can be. Its like those little 15 year olds trying to be players.
And they get mad, because they want them BOTH, not just one but two. Cause they cant make up their immature mind
2007-03-11 03:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A buck deer will collect as many does as he can. It's called "SURVIVAL of the fittest". With men , since we don't like doing "rejection" or " ultimatums" we use the fall-back system. Even though it works it's a bad system especially in a long term relationship. You girls have the upper hand, but that also lasts only so long. Best thing to do, girl is cut your losses as soon as you know thats going on. The ultimatums will stay in his mind and as soon as you cant, wont , fill your side of the implied contract you've given him his out.
2007-03-11 04:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by reinformer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a big social problem. But I find it happening both ways in which proportions is not known when both are equally bad, worse, worst in various magnitude. There are instances when persons have corrected themselves to bring back harmony in the relationship but the way same as before.
No law can stop it.
Girlfriend and wife are two different philosophy. Only one girlfriend can be your wife when other must be treated as friends only and it is always advisable to be transparent to your wife with utmost sincerity and faith. There cannot be anything bigger and wiser than mutual faith.
2007-03-11 04:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by subhas chandra kar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far no men have answered lmao! My advice is to only date and take seriously a guy who is completely single and free. There is nothing but pain and drama to be had if he's already seeing someone. Besides why would you want to be with someone who can be led away from his GF so easily? He would simply do the same to you if you were with him, and trust in a relationship is number one.
2007-03-11 03:44:07 · answer #8 · answered by artistcreatorcomposer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't read any of the other answers but why would you want to be with someone who is a cheat, he is telling you how much he likes you and has a girlfriend? is this the kind of guy you want to be with. They get mad because you put him on the spot. and he didn't like it. Respect yourself enough not to get involved with someone who will cheat on you.
2007-03-11 03:47:49 · answer #9 · answered by celesta_palmer2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never done what you refer to but I am sure it happens.
I try to treat others as I want to be treated, if I ruin my character, I am the only one that suffers. you can take the ugliest woman alive and there is some guy that will be desperate enough to screw her. so quit trying to mold men into your ideal vision and look for qualitiies that you like. just like there are good women and bad women, there are good guys and bad guys.
2007-03-11 03:50:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋