Me and my exgirlfreind have been on and off for a year. Two months ago I broke things off and said that we should date other people. We have stayed freinds and talked everyfew days. She recently told me she was seeing someone but kept it from me after I had asked her to tell me so I wouldnt ask her out as not to intrude. I also shared with her that I have started dating again as well. Well after she told me she was seeing someone I stoped calling her and she has been calling me every few days. Last night I got a call from her and she brought up a time when we were intamate. Why would she do this? Does she want more than freindship now? Im confused.
2007-03-10 18:31:53 · 13 answers · asked by CJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she probably doesn't want you with anyone else dude.
2007-03-10 18:35:07 · answer #1 · answered by MELISSA&ERIC 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-01 22:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a comfortable has-been, which leaves a fair number of exs' to assume that you both can talk about nearly anything. I don't think it's to get you back, it sounds more like she using you as a sounding board.Unless all she talks about is when you two were together I wouldn't let it bother me, but if it bothers you , ask her to not mention your intimate stuff when she calls, That it bothers you. good luck.
2007-03-10 18:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by reinformer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reminicing about the past doesn't mean she's still into you. Sure, there might be some feelings left lingering, but it could just be a way to get your attention. Its obvious she still wants to be friends, but since you started dating someone new it seems your neglecting that friendship. How about trying to talk to her. If you think she's still digging you, ask her. But don't blow her off because you have someone new, because chances are, you'll regret it later on when she doesn't answer your calls.
2007-03-10 18:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by >>Chimmy Chonga<< 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
obviously she has feelings for you still, you guys go on and off with your relationship. Its not right of her to call you still and that is disrespectful to her new bf. I know your friends and all but if you guys are having conversations about your loving days(esp. when you both are taken at the moment) then stop that mess avoid contact with her if it persists. Dont make things worse for you both.....
2007-03-10 18:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by Emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi CJ, your ex girl might still be having a soft spot for you. It all depend on you if you want to have another go with her. Unless you are happy in your new relationship. it could be she wants you back but she doesn't know how to get you back, is up to you to find out.
2007-03-10 18:43:18 · answer #6 · answered by misslick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, men are so BLIND.................yes, she still wants you and is trying to make you jealous and to want her back.
It's time for you to make a decision.............either you are with this chick or you are not. Dont try to play the "friends" card cuz this won't work with this one.
She wants you, or to not know about anyone ELSE with you.
Did you see "Fatal Attraction" , by the way? You might want to. I cannot imagine a girl wanting a guy who doesn't want her back. But you may be stuck with one.
Good luck, man.
2007-03-10 18:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by Avon Lady 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I totally think she's not over you. She may miss you like hell and have no idea how to deal with it. She may be telling you about other guys to try and make you win her back. She may totally miss you but not know how to make the first move.
If she has a naturally quiet personality, I wouldn't be surprised if she doesn't know how to get back together with you on her own.
2007-03-10 18:36:30 · answer #8 · answered by Breez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she's quite gotten over you yet. If you asked about her significant other, and she said nothing, she might have made him up just to see if it would get you jealous.
If she's the one who keeps calling, and bringing up old memories, I don't think she's moving on. So now you know. It's up to you if you take her calls or not.
Best of Luck.
2007-03-10 18:38:54 · answer #9 · answered by grldragon101 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She obviously wants what she can't have. You admitted you were dating again and shes jealous. Don't get fed into it. You'll just end up hurt.
2007-03-10 18:36:47 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer N 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's your ex - why are you still talking to her?
2007-03-10 18:35:17 · answer #11 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋