My boyfriend dumped me over text! wot do i do?

Question

I'm 13! first time i've been dumped!

I can't stop thinking about him!

I am ugly! dats y he dumped me i think!

Answer 1

Big hugs coming your way!
Ignore the message, mope around for an hour or so, phone up some girlfriends and go out.. enjoy your new found freedom and wait for the next even nicer guy to come along.
If you cant get to go out.. go and sort out your clothes or your undies... make a fresh start and get over him. Plenty more fish in the sea.
Sounds like he doesnt deserve you anyway.
Even if you are only 13 it still hurts like hell, but you are in the process of learning one of lifes lessons....
Sorry to tell you but there is plenty more of these 'hurts' to come your way.

Answer 2

Being dumped (or being hit on) has less to do with looks and more with how a peson feels. Jennifer Anniston and Cameron Diaz are very pretty. But they got dumped. Think positive. Maybe he broke up with you just because he is young and immature and wants to hang out with more than one girl. At 13, you should not worry about boyfriends anyway. Focus on your studies. That will make you smarter and it will also make you truly ready for good relationships.

I don't know how to explain this to you because you are so young, but sometimes a relationship simply ends because it is over. There's nothing wrong with either person. But you just get to a point where you say, "Well, this is all fine, but I want something different."

Answer 3

it always sucks when your bf dumps you over text. it's rather rude, and these kinds of things should really be done face-to-face. but you're only 13, girl=) you still have a long way to go in life. and just know that this won't be the first and only time you'll get dumped. it'll happen more times as you grow older. go out with your friends and watch some movies - just have fun! being a teenager is the best time of your life=) enjoy it while you can!

Answer 4

How immature dumping you over a test message. This is the first time you got dumped but it won't be the last either. Eventually you'll get over this loser i promise you. Don't think about it that much or it will depress you more. Go out with your friends and have some fun. Who cares about the moron. Trust me you'll find someone someday who is better. In a couple of months you probably won't even remember this guy.

Answer 5

Well....you are thirteen and this guy decided to dump you by text. Honestly, that is not only immature but it kind of makes him sound like he is intimidated by you. He doesn't want to have to hear your response be it angry, sad, or whatever. I wouldn't give him the satisfaction of responding. Besides, going up to him and yelling or texting him back with something or talking bad about him behind his back will make you look like a bad guy, too. In front of all of his friends and your friends too. Be the mature one. Added bonus- If you handle it maturely ("It wasn't working out. I am better off." and not being rude) then other guys will notice that you aren't a stupid little girl and probably be more interested in you. And, don't worry- this guy wasn't "the one" or anything. You are 13 and have plenty of time to find that. Don't get too crushed up over it. If he dumps you by text, he isn't worth the added drama.

Answer 6

You know, dumping someone by text is really cowardly. Its the same thing by doing it by email, phone or whatever, if you are going to finish with someone do it to their faces.

If you are asking why he dumped you, then thats a different matter. Don't get into the self loathing frame of mind, that won't get you out of it and it won't make you feel better. Been there done that - will not do it again

Draw a line in your past walk over it into your future, cheer up we really are not all that bad.

Answer 7

first of all, have some *hugs*! i think hes a spinless rat for doing it over text, really, even a phone call is better!! if hes so gutless that he can only do it over text, ur probably better off without him!! being dumped is always hard, but i reckon the best way to get over it is to enjoy urself!! gather all ur girlies around u, have a sleepover or something, b***h about him, and get a load of compliments heaped on you!! then, whenever hes about, make sure uve got someone with you, and look like youre having a load of fun!! soon, you wont be pretending to have fun, you actually will, and youll find a new boyfriend, perhaps a more mature one!!! xxx

Answer 8

I'm sure you're not ugly. Most girls I've known (including me) went through a stage where they thought they were ugly & they really are beautiful.
I know you feel sad but it's all a part of life. You're gonna be coming across loads of "firsts" and each one of them is a learning experience.
Just remember that it's not your fault he dumped you. Relationships at your age may feel real but trust me, they aren't.
He's over it, so why aren't you. You haven't lost anyone special or the love of your life, right!
Another lad will come along soon enough and you will have already got over this lad who has dumped you.
Forget him and have fun, you're only 13!

Answer 9

You are not ugly, no one is ugly, we are all beautiful in our own way.You may not accept this answer but do you think you are doing yourself any favours getting involved with boys at your age to the piont that it is causing you so much stress. Please,please have fun, have boyfriends ,if you must, but slow up. You are only 13.As to the first time you have been dumped, there is always a first time for everything but at 13 you may not be aware of that,slow up.

Answer 10

Oh you poor thing. I remember the first time I was dumped, I was 16. I cried and cried. Oh the embarrassment, He'd sent someone else to tell me! Didn't have mobile phones in them days! But you'll get over it. Think of it this way - if he can be so callous as to dump you via text then surely he doesn't deserve you in the first place. Go back to your 'girl' friends and tell them what an idiot he was. Give him a bad name!
Good luck.