i just have a little bit of doubt in my mind that he does like me...but only sometimes. he like barely returns my calls, and he like barely ever answers his phone. it annoys me..and when were talking or like on the phone...we run out of things to say. i REALLY like him tho, i just need sum advice or ur opinion or sumthing.
2007-03-10 18:19:17 · 12 answers · asked by sec 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him.
2007-03-10 18:35:14 · answer #1 · answered by CM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him come to you , if he cares about you he will make an effort to call you or get together with you. I know that its hard when you really care about someone but in the long run you might be sparing your own feelings.He's Just Not Into You
Wondering if he really likes you?
Here are nine surefire ways to tell if he's just not into you.
He never makes plans in advance
If he really wanted to see you, do you really think he would keep calling you on Friday to make plans for Saturday?
He talks too much about an ex-girlfriend
It's okay to reminisce about a past relationship, but if it's all he talks about, could it be he's not over her yet?
He won't talk about the future
We're not talking about ultimatums here or putting undue pressure on the guy.
But if he refuses to discuss where things are headed, then can you really count on him to be the one?
He doesn't plan anything for special occasions
If your birthday is coming up or Valentine's Day and it's not on his radar screen, do you think your happiness is top of mind for him?
He lets you do all the work
It's okay to plan some of the dates, but if you only see each other when you make it happen, then can he really claim to be committed to the relationship?
He's not clear about your status with friends and family
Does he tell you that you're his girlfriend but say something different in front of friends and family, like we're just close friends?
He's overly guarded about cell phone and email messages
People who hide nothing have nothing to hide. Why would he be so protective about messages if he had nothing to hide?
He has no interest in your friends and family
If this relationship has a future, at some point he'll have to establish relationships with the people important in your life. If he's not interested in meeting your friends and family, could it be he doesn't expect to be around too long?
He cancels on you all the time
Making plans is great but not if they're constantly cancelled by him. What could possibly come up every weekend that he bags on plans with you to do something else
2007-03-10 18:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She jealous and probable would not be attentive to a thank you to handle those emotions. it is enormously complicated to handle at situations - much extra so if she's no longer very beautiful and has no self-worth. try chatting together with her first to enable her be attentive to you do no longer advise her any hassle. If that would not artwork and its nonetheless occurring, maybe then have a quiet be conscious with him, yet do no longer make it sound like she bothers you as he could think of you're being clingy or something. maybe he ought to talk together with her and reassure her that even nevertheless he's with you presently, its does no longer threaten their friendship in any way.
2016-11-24 19:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys hate to talk on the phone, I know I do. quit trying to make a g/f out of him. too much of a good thing can smother a love, leave it alone for a while and let him come to you. I don't mean to play games, just learn to back off some.
2007-03-10 18:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate using the damn phone to have conversations.
I use the phones to get directions of where Im going to meet people.
Women and having to talk on the phone pisses me off. Shut the hell up for once would you?
Talk to me when you see me in person, not on the damn phone about a bunch of nothing.
I got movies to watch, video games to play, friends to hang out with, music to listen to. I dont want to hear you talk about your worthless life over the phone. Id much rather hear about it face to face.
So why not hang out with the guy, have a movie night at his place or yours? or go out to dinner and movie? miniature golf, bowling, pool hall, the beach, a lake, anything in person works wonders for talking.
2007-03-10 18:27:33 · answer #5 · answered by Thats me...A to the D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all men are creatures of habbit they just wait around for a woman to come along and make them change.
so what i would do is change my routines up. do things for you self and dont enclude him see how he acts.
ps. you worry to much about what he thinks if didnt like he wouldnt be your boyfriend maybe you bored with him dont feel bad ever one goes through it . good luck
2007-03-10 18:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by janet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not calling him or even asking him what seems to be the problem. I know its gonna hurt you but trust me hes gonna snap out of it
2007-03-10 18:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by cutie k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come out and ask him, but in a way that doesn't seem too obvious. say "baby how much do you care about me?" and make him explain his answer.
2007-03-10 18:24:45 · answer #8 · answered by guybjr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good litmus test would be to stop calling and let him pursue you.
2007-03-10 18:26:39 · answer #9 · answered by bigpumpdaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel free to ask your boyfriend if he likes you.
2007-03-10 18:24:31 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Sir 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is doing someone else..You are just his in-house pu**y
2007-03-10 18:22:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋