My brother betrayed me for his girlfriend & done me a lot of wrong, & I want to get revenge on him because he has me hurting inside. But people on here are saying that by me wanting to get revenge on him is asking for attention. How? They started a lot of false rumors about me & made a lot of false allegations against me, & I want to find a way to break them 2 up, so he can stop putting her before his family.
2007-03-10 18:16:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Wow ! I am sorry if you got wronged by a family member, but it does happen, especially if they think they are in -love or what ever the circumstances might be. I understand the emotion of wanting payback but sometimes it will cause even more damage to the person paying back than to the other. As long as your remaining family and your real friends do not believe , you might be better off to let it go . I do not think your trying to get attention, but that because you got hurt by someone you love , the anger took over and you wanted to hit back. I have wanted payback also for lots of different reasons, but I have found out that life tends to even things out in its own way given time. Karma has a way of hitting you when you least expect it.
I hope your life gets better, and that you will be able to forgive your brother at some point, might take awhile , and it will be something you will never forget. The hurt willl lessen in time ,go on with your life and life will take care of the rest.
2007-03-10 22:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My belief is, "what goes around, comes around". You don't need to seek revenge, if he has really been an awful person, he will get what's coming to him sooner or later. Karma's a b*tch.
No good will come from dwelling on what wrongs he has done you. Be the mature one and move on. He's probably not losing any sleep over this and you shouldn't either. Maybe someday he will realize what a jerk he has been, but until then keep you head high & go about your life.
2007-03-11 04:53:59 · answer #2 · answered by libbey d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
before you do anything ask yourself, Is it really worth it? If you go ahead with your plans and get the revenge and break them up have you considered that your brother might never speak to you again and then how would you feel. the best thing to do is let it go for now and your day will come to get your payback.
2007-03-11 03:26:41 · answer #3 · answered by karen v 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Instead of living your life away from the people who wronged you, you have to keep inserting yourself in their lives.
You say you want to hurt him. Well, that's attention seeking behavior.
Breaking someone up will definitely make them notice you.
The best thing to do is turn your back on him and go about your life.
By living a fantastic life, he will regret not being part of it.
I'm thinking you are too close to your brother anyway. I mean, EWW!!! You sound like he was your boyfriend or something.
2007-03-11 03:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Or just kick him in the balls for the hell of it. That works too. You watch too much tv. If he's made his choice then let him live with it. The only thing you can do is make things worse for everyone.
2007-03-11 03:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by duberdurm 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sounds to me like you have some jealousy going on, get over it omg he's your brother forever for life you will be connected to him. This chick he has isn't going to last long.. it will blow over and soon enough he will be back teasing you again. trust me
2007-03-11 03:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by Iluvhim 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
go outside kick him in the balls and tell him you want to have a serious chat
2007-03-11 03:21:16 · answer #7 · answered by fatdadslim 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You're living up to your name.....
2007-03-11 03:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 3⤊ 3⤋