i was a vergin when i gave my self to my bf,but when we having sex i didnt bleed,i felt the pain and he does not beliv me that he was the first, i insulted so much ..i value my verginity a lot that i promise to my self that i only gave this to whom i love..what should i do now i love him and i know he loves me too...
2007-03-10 18:10:32 · 10 answers · asked by 0330em@jd 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bleeding is more the exception than the rule. He needs to educate himself
You have a relationship with him he should believe you.
2007-03-10 18:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by SuperKdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to bleed. that's an old wives tale. it's simply not true.....educate yourself and your boyfriend before you go any further. oh, and by the way...."pulling out" is not an effective method of birth control. yes, you can get pregnant the first time you have sex, and yes you can also get an std. see a doctor and get advise on birth control and protection from sexually transmitted diseases.
2007-03-11 03:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by iwondersoiask 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did not bleed the first time either I guess some of us just don't, tell him to look it up on the internet and will find out some girls just don't bleed when they loose their virginty
2007-03-11 03:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by celesta_palmer2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all girls are made different and not all of them bleed. reashure him that he is the one for you if you really believe that. men like to have their egos boosted. tell him how big he is or something. if that doesnt work you could always wait till "that time of the month" do it again and he will have the blood he wants. . .and it will keep you fromfeeling bad
2007-03-11 03:17:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my gf didnt bleed the first time either but she accidently put a kotex in too far one time and it ripped her causing her to lose that part of her virginity so dont worry you didnt do anything wrong
2007-03-11 03:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive heard that young women can break their hymen from using tampons. your so-called bf is way out of line by wanting to take your virginity in the first place, besides did he want to take your virginity for the blood?if so he is a freak and you should kick him to the curb either way.
2007-03-11 03:23:27 · answer #6 · answered by smokehaus420247 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just got a jerk. sorry you had to go through that.if hes gonna say something like that then you can do better hes doesn't really love you if he thinks you lied about something u care about.
2007-03-11 03:22:39 · answer #7 · answered by dizzle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always go to the doctor to prove that you were a virgin when you all had sex.
2007-03-11 03:15:14 · answer #8 · answered by babyangel81981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you and him should sit down and talk, and really convince him that he is your first just make him look in to your eyes and be very clear and honest.
2007-03-11 03:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by kina l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are jerks. make him look into it. Not all girls bleed the first time. I didn't either.
2007-03-11 03:14:01 · answer #10 · answered by tara b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋