That must be really horrible for you. It is one of the downsides of living in a small community. If it is possible, try to get away for a few days, a complete change of scenery. If that's not possible, get out of the village for the day, just to get away om the situation. Failing that, you just need to work it through your system. Pull close friends and family together. Tell them you are having a really difficult time and need their support. Give yourself some time.
Going through something like this really hurts. I live in a town and a guy I thought a lot of lived just round the corner from my work place. I used to see his car every day and it was awful. I dreaded bumping into him. I just kept myself really really busy. I joined a gym to take the anger out and steered clear of anywhere I thought he would be. Difficult but avoiding him and if I did see him avoiding any contact, really helped me.
Take care x
PS. I don't know what I ever saw in him now!
2007-03-10 17:38:13
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answered by Sarah 3
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asserting your his maximum wished woman and by ability of conserving your previous movements here truly doesnt say plenty approximately you. What I see that's some dude walks in into this type of great style of lifes like Gods present to females and all of sudden all and sundry needs him so the undertaking of who is going to land him is on like a batch of hungry wolves around a sprint lamb. And hes no longer all that sturdy, come on!. females are like adult adult males in that they only choose for one factor, the thrill of a conquest conquered. You dont love him yet you like another woman merely needs him by way of fact others do to so youre not greater desirable than a militia of ants. Dare to be distinctive and dance to a distinctive beat and end being a sheep and walk removed from from this guy in the previous you get a STD or something. Now wouldnt that be ideas-blowing if it exceeded off from Mr Irresponsible. I as quickly as had the comparable difficulty yet knew that females weren't a conquest so I permit alot of females down and am chuffed I did and maximum of those females understand why I acted the way I did. keep in mind, its no longer having what you opt for for, yet needing what you have. advance up
2016-12-14 16:07:39
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answered by ? 4
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Only time will heal a broken heart.
Try to occupy yourself with a hobby or something that will take your mind off him. Same thing happened to me and I through myself into my work, got fit and really looked after myself.
Try not to become bitter because you're better than that. One day when you're truly over him he will look at you and regret losing you.
Keep your chin up, it takes time but it will happen, all the best. XX
2007-03-14 14:52:51
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answered by Anonymous
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Try shagging a few guys in a large village
2007-03-10 17:25:47
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answered by anicoleslaw 5
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oh poor you, this happened to me, its crap isnt it??!
well, 1st of all, be glad that you didnt spend any more of your preciuos time with this creep who obviously has no brain in his head but only in his penis!
hold your head high, do not let them see you are hurting at all, which is hard but better than being pitied and sniggered at by him and her.
then fling yourself into work, friends, going out, taking up new hobbies, even if you ahve to go to larger town to do so, and who knows what hunk with a true heart is waiting for you out there?!
good luck babes, be strong, remember you're the beautiful one, and they are spiritually ugly and they have some seriously bad karma awaiting them.
2007-03-10 19:38:44
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answered by hedgewitch 4
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Hello Kerrie
Just try to get over him dear, it will take time I'm sure you'll find someone soon if not this wee hedgehog likes you.
Take care
Hedgy the Hedgehog xxxx
2007-03-10 18:26:30
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answered by Anonymous
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Just try to forget about it, you need to find someone new. Just go out and have a few one night stands, you will feel much better
2007-03-10 17:27:24
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answered by Nick F 1
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It's been 10 years for me and my heart is still broke in two.
2007-03-10 20:44:23
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answered by Teenie 7
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move on hun, you find yourself a new man, someone who will treat you how you deserve, and flaunt him under his nose, then watch him try to worm his way back into you life......tell him where to get off when he does!
be happy, that will hurt him like hell
and as for her....forget it, sounds to me that they deserve eachother, the sad pathetic low lifes!
goodluck hun
2007-03-11 00:20:05
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answered by Just passing the time! 5
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erm just try & be happy. ure happiness will definetly attract someone great, who will be 10X more amazing than the loser that broke your heart
2007-03-10 23:21:16
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answered by helen b 3
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