I only feel comfortable and calm after having some deep conversations with him. There aren't that sort of sparks like I expect. He didn't touch me and maybe that's why? I felt like I was with an old and very good friend.
He asked for a second date. How do I push the relationship to a higher level of closeness physically and emotionaly? I don't mean sex.
2007-03-10 17:19:45 · 10 answers · asked by lenna j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
flirt with him a more
2007-03-10 17:22:01 · answer #1 · answered by any 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick around and let the relationship grow on its own. This guy sounds like a dream dude. He talks and you "only" feel comfortable and calm. Someone special will be like an old and very good friend. Not touching you very much could be an indication of the respect he has for you rather than you are not "turning him on"
Two old phrases come to mind here.
Better no relationship than a bad relationship. You could be in the beginning of the most wonderful thing in your life. Why not let it take its time. If this is a bad relationship, give yourself time to find out before you risk more involvement
Better bad sex with a good man than good sex with a bad man. Maybe he doesn't set the woods on fire, but is he willing to consider more than a roll in the hay? Yes, he may be looking for a wife who hasn't been all over town. Give him time and enjoy a man who is interested in who you are.
2007-03-10 17:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by Butterflie927 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax, and let the relationship have time to develope into something deeper. Pushing will cause some people to back off. I am like that, I do not like to be rushed or pushed when I am dating. It is a turnoff.
2007-03-10 17:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The biggest mistake any guy or girl can make is to push anything----bad word. Push is force and you can't force anything. You should let it develop slowly--and concentrate on having fun--what's with all the deep talk?? BORING!!!.Let his nature and traits come out slowly, discovering you and him should be fun....together. You won't have his interest or his concentration if you take the path you are on. Smile, be nice, have fun and good luck.
2007-03-10 17:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the sparks aren't there you can't self-produce them. If the second date sucks as well, move on to someone else. Maybe you should just be friends with this guy.
2007-03-10 17:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by GonzoPutty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make an effort to get to know him, and let him know YOU, the REAL YOU! If there's nothing there you can't force it, but if you like to spend time together just talking that's a big step. IT shows you can get along with each other without sex.
2007-03-10 17:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by gravytrain036 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first take him 2 the corner then kiss or say u like him.
well this much is the answer in my mind.
well have a lovely date 2-gather.
2007-03-10 17:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by blue_fly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to naturaly get close to him. Once you start talking, move closer. Start to flirt and lovingly touch his arm. Once he starts getting your message, then he will get a bit physical. Once he does this, kiss him! It will work out, trust me.
2007-03-10 17:25:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should try making the first move!!..then maybe he'l get the idea and start getting closer to you !!!
2007-03-10 17:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by Victor JG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you sound like u wanta fast track to get laid, admit it!
2007-03-10 17:22:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋