A while back my boyfriend told me that he layed in bed with a girl and said " it didnt fit" ...does that mean they had sex?
also he said he was drunk one night and said he was laying in bed with another girl and said that a few weeks later the girl called him saying she was pregnant as if he was the dad....does that mean the could of possibly had sex?
my boyfriend doesnt want to give me a straight answer....and says well "what IF i wasnt a virgin? does that mean u wouldnt love me?"
and i told him" no...that means u lied to me for a long time."
im so confused :(
2007-03-10 17:18:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
when i finished talking to him he said "i better come back tomorrow and not find any trouble"
as if he expects me to be okay..like he owns me or something
2007-03-10 17:25:03 · update #1
this didnt happen while i was with him
2007-03-10 17:34:26 · update #2
Dump him. He had sex. He lied to you and he is still lying.
2007-03-10 17:23:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being a wuss and demand a straight answer .. think about it this way, had you been laying in bed wid some random guy and if you told him that much detail that he told you, he wouldve dumped ur *** immediately and walked out..u dont need his loser *** so if he DID have sex with someone else while going out wid you, you dont have to listen to his excuses cuz all you gotta do is kick him in the *** and tell him goodbye..and he's feeling guildty for having sex with other girls and that's why he is trying to make YOU feel guilty so he wouldnt be the only one taking the trip but dont fall for it..
if he laid in the bed with a girl and said it didn't fit that means he TRIED to have sex with the girl but his penis didnt go in i guess..the thing is that he tried..he shouldnt even have done that while going out wid you..how would he like it if you tried to have sex with some random guy out there..trust me he would dump you so you should do the same to him
and if a girl called him sayin she was pregnant and if he was the dad than YEA they had sex!!!!!!!! if they didn't have sex, the girl wouldnt even ask him that..lets say the girl slept with five guys and she's not sure of who the dad is..well even then, why wuld she ask your man if he's the dad if she wasnt sure that they had sex? i mean if they had just kissed, then she wouldnt have asked him that..and girl it doesnt matter if he just kissed a girl or had sex with the girl, it's the intentions that count and if he's going to do all this before you guys get serious, then imagine what he may do afterwards
and i understand that you love him and all but i've been in the same situation and trust me things escalate after a while if you let them go the first time..you have to be firm with him and hold you rposition no matter wat..do NOT back down ever cuz if you back down once, then you lose foreer because he will think that you can be cajoled anytime no matter wat he does and you dont want a man-whore for your bf cuz his actions are totally pointing to that..and not only is it mentally and psychologically hard for you, but if he keeps on sleeping around with random girls then when and if you have sex with him, you might get aids or something so be really wary..you dont wanna get aids from a guy who was unfaithful to you and who slept around
and yeah he has obviously lied to you for a long time and dont tell me you're gonna tolerate that..i know you can be stronger than that so even if you dont wanna break up with him or dump his loser *** than atleast be really really firm with him, demand a straight answer, and tell him that if he does that one more time then u guys are thru..iand if he does that one more time you should sleep with his best friend or something..that will show him not to mess with you..oh and if he doesnt give you a straight answer tell him that you cannot stay with a person who cannot be honest with you because that way there is no future
good luck girl i know you can do it..just dont let him off the hook tho please :) n u know you deserve someone totally better and if you wanna stick wid him..then show him who's da boss
2007-03-10 17:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by 3.14159265358979323846 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No guy shares a bed with a girl unless some form of sex is involved.... why would you want to go out with sucha guy anyway?? He sounds like a player.
2007-03-10 17:23:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a complete looser....Do yourself a favor and get rid of him before you end up ruining your life!!!!!!!
2007-03-10 23:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by sjtuck3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he can't give you straight answer, he can't be trusted. if he's lying about that, why would you want to be w/ him & what else might he be lying to you about?
2007-03-10 17:28:22 · answer #5 · answered by MaMaMiLaJo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋