i already went out with him and i couldnt handle it because i couldnt go anywhere without someone saying eeeeewwww your going out with him but now that we broke up earlier this year but i still like him and people say he still likes me what should i do?
2007-03-10 17:16:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
love is about what your heart says and how you feel about the other person and how they feel about you. you cant let what people say get in your way! that's crazy!!
i remember when i started going out with my boyfriend.. NONE of my friends liked him becuase they didnt think he looked good.. which sucked for them because they didnt know who he was on the inside.. they didnt know the boyfriend i knew so i let it go.. i decided not bother fighting THEM because that was their opinion and i didnt break up with my boyfriend because of it.. i mean, if they were my real friends.. they would accept him eventually so i had to make sure that happened and they did..
so dont let what people say change your mind about somebody because you could end up hurting them for no reason.. and then you're hurting yourself too by letting go of something you didnt want to let go of but only did because of pressure. i think you should go talk to him about what happened and tell him how u feel and tell yourself you wont do it again =)
2007-03-10 17:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what others think, my daughter went through the same thing, but did not care what others thought she followed her heart not others views of that person. Everyone needs someone, it sounds like you do not want to be judged by others, in life no matter what you do or who you are with someone will always judge you honey, follow your heart not others opinions
2007-03-10 17:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by celesta_palmer2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop worring about what everyone else is saying becuase its not their happiness that is on the line. People wont care about what you think about their boy friends or girl friends.
2007-03-10 17:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by Krystal G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you care what others think why? Do you like him more or the people that are saying "eeeewwwwww!"? You have to answer those questions yourself first...
2007-03-10 17:23:23 · answer #4 · answered by Keira Mantia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i once met this girl that was going out with this overweight dude. and right then and there i knew that these two will be togeather, she didn't care what he looked like they we're in love and thats just how it's supoesd to be
2007-03-10 17:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by Reid 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
patch-up
if u love/likes him he will agree 2 talk 2 u or go out with u if he likes u
but remember ask him when hes alone.
2007-03-10 17:20:54 · answer #6 · answered by blue_fly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should not care what society has to say. u should only care about what you want to do and make yourself happy. u should try to talk to him, either by phone or face to face and alone, then just calmly speak to him. just be friendly and speak nicely to him.
2007-03-10 17:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u need to stop caring bout what others think.
thats a gay reason for breakin up he doesnt deserve u.
2007-03-10 17:20:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really like this guy why care of what people think??? why let other people rule your world? it is you who will just suffer... follow your heart...
2007-03-10 17:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart
2007-03-10 17:20:36 · answer #10 · answered by Raymond B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋