Do u think that its right for my GF to ignore me completely, because she is pregnant..?

Question

she says she feel sick all the time, there were many thinks that she hided about her past from me, she told me she only had sex with her ex, with whom she was for two years, now i came to know she had sex with two more guys when she was 17, she also fooled around with 2, and had oral with couple of guys she met randomly at party.

Not only that she kissed a guy when she was me, saying that she was drunk. now i am trying to ask her everyday about her past and any othr thing she hided from me or no and to see if our relationship can work or no.

If i tell her i cannot marry because of that she gets mad and threats me to drag in court for child support and ruin my life.

Sometimes she tell emabout her past but most of times she tell me not to ask anything, and not to even kiss her as she is feeling sick,she even dont care if i leave her for day or two is she really sick or just trying to hide something more from me. Did she really love me or just wanna stick me for sake of kid.

What should i expect from her now, explanation of why she hided her past or should i just take care of her because she is pregnant and need help.

She is 8 weeks pregnant is it not the right time to fight over our issues, when should i ask her all that, do u think we have a future together,

Should i walk away from her and just pay child support or try to be with her and support her emotionally, i really love her but after knowing that she lied to me about such a big thing i am afraid if she really loved me or no. Is she trapping me so i can take care of her whole of her life or she really loves me.

After she became pregnant she stopped having sex with me saying that she feels sick, she dosent wanna come near me saying she feels like puking all day, she dosent care if i am around or no, all she wants is to rest and me to take care of her no and not to ask for any explainations.

Please suggest is she faking or she really love me, should i marry her, leave her, or just stay with her

Answer 1

Sounds to me it's that your the only idiot that stuck by her side long enough she can say your the father. Sorry for my language but this girls been around more than the faris wheel in my town, and seems to me shes now taking advantage of you because you are currently the true one by her side at the moment. I suggest you take a paternity test when this child is born, then you can really take action about this situation.
This is also a bad time to actually to discuss this with her because of the hormonal changes going through her right now. The first 4 months are said to be the most hardest, so be patient with her for a while. Help her for the time being, I guess....but I really think you should find out the truth about this girl, she doesn't seem safe to me. You can't trust anyone nowadays. And then there is that your not suppsed to look at someone for their past but what they will do good in the future...so it's really up to you now bud. Good luck.

Answer 2

It sounds to me like the two of you have bigger issues than her ignoring you.

My wife is pregnant and sick ALL THE TIME. She doesn't ignore me, but then I'm not trying to make her have sex with me either. She's sick, so I'll wait until she feels better. She's worth the wait.

Stop bugging her about her past. It's like worrying about someone who worked at your job before you. Somebody had your job before you, but it's your job now, so stop worrying about it.

Answer 3

I think she really loves you. Have faith. I think she's turning inwards is because of her hormones. Once she's had the baby, everything might turn to normal. Be patient.

God bless

Answer 4

i feel really bad for you because you already knocked her up and now your just finding out about all this, that sucks, i think your SOL

Answer 5

sounds like a pregnant women...... a complete pain in the @ss! get an abortion and get away from this crazy broad!