I have four kids 7,6,3 and 2 and I have a new one do any day now. I never had this problem the 2yr old is a daddy and mama's girl and I dont think she is going to like the new baby very much she wants to be under us all the time and it seems like she knows the baby is coming cause all she dose now is cry and she has been walkin around talking about I'm a baby I want a ba ba. I need help what can we do??
2007-03-10 17:13:43 · 9 answers · asked by tae 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Let her know she is not going to be set aside and that she is going to be a big sister. You will still be there for her.
2007-03-10 17:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
provide him 3 days of looking after her on a similar time as you pass out and function some unsupervised exciting! (: enable him see that he can no longer continuously be the stable guy that makes each little booboo extra perfect. He disrepects you as a mom and he's going to destroy your daugher. As she grows older, she'll come to launch that whenever you're saying no, daddy will say particular and she or he'll develop into the advise lady on the playground that thinks she is extra perfect than all of us. you could type a sturdy bond along with your daughter, too. After he spends his 3 days together with her, have a talk, see what's replaced, and make a plan.
2016-11-24 19:53:55 · answer #2 · answered by vasim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make her feel special even though you have the baby on the way. Make her feel part of everything that is going on so she doesn't feel like she is being replaced. When you have the baby give her a gift and tell her that the baby sent her that present. Make it something special so she will feel happy to have a baby around. Try to give her as much attention possible but let her know that a baby is on the way, let her help when you have the baby, like when you are changing the baby let her be involved. She will get used to the fact that she isn't the baby anymore, but also like her baby brother or sister. Good luck!
2007-03-10 17:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by Chulis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make her feel special, buy her a couple gifts get her one from the new baby saying "to my big sister" or something. Ask your older children to play games with her, she may feel left out as they are older so she can;t play games with them. Put a photo of the new baby next to her bed. Hope some of this helps, and hope you have a fab birth. Lisa x
2007-03-10 20:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by naughtylisa07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her feel special ang get involved with everything like get her to help pack your hospital bag when the baby's born get her to help with the baby and give lots of praise for it,also make sure you set some time during the day where just you and her or her and dad do something special toghther like draw or read a book watch tele or go to the park etc.xx
2007-03-10 22:31:23 · answer #5 · answered by deliciousde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I had my first child she was like our little precious that was our whole life.... Than I got pregnant when she was 5 and she didn't like it! I would do my best to be equil but she didn't understand that we can't play dolls whenever SHE wants. It was sad. Than she got used to it. Than when my 2nd child was 3 I had another. And BOY OH BOY WAS SHE NOT HAPPY!!! She was always with me hugging my leg blah blah blah and The baby was taking her attention. She still hasn't quite gotten used to it yet! than when my 3rd was 2 I had another. She didn't seem to have a problem. He is 6 mos. now. : ) Just see all are different.
2007-03-10 17:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEAR
(1ST) YOU ARE RIGHT ON DEAR THAT IS # 1 AND 2ND JUST WAIT UNTIL IT GETS HERE YOU WILL HAVE YOUR HANDS FULL BUT IF YOU DO PLEASE WHAT I LISTED BELOW NO MORE PROBLEMS OK
(1ST) THE OLDER KIDS CAN PLAY BOARD GAMES WITH HER SHOW HER HOW TO PLAY MONOPOLY JR CANDY LAND CHUTES AND LARDERS ETC
(2ND) DVD MOVIES JUST FOR HER AND THEM GO TO WAL-MARTS AND DEAR GET ON THE ($ 5.50) RACK THEY HAVE NEW MOVIES FROM RATED G-PG-PG-13 I WOULD NOT GO PASSED PG SCENTS THEY ARE SO YOUNG
AND DEAR HARRY AND THE HENDERSON'S IS COMING OUT ON DVD LATE APRIL
IF ONE OF THEM HAVE A BIRTHDAY GREAT GIFT ALSO LAND BEFORE TIME 12 IS COMING OUT TOO
TAKE CARE
PS SET YOUR CLOCKS UP 1 HOUR OK.
2007-03-10 17:30:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go its a way for her to cope get her a speical baby bottle and stuff shell get out of it just let her be a big baby too then when shes used to the new baby you can compare how big she is
2007-03-10 22:30:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your seven and six year old to show her fun things older kids get to do and make sure she still feels special.
2007-03-11 01:57:55 · answer #9 · answered by gymnastics~is~life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋