what if the guy your dating tell's you .. ?

Question

the guy im dating right now for 1 month, told me on the phone today that he " doesn`t know if likes me or not " he's in a social club so he meets plenty of PRETTY HOTT girls. i know this sounds immature but he told me everytime he see's them he wants to tap them. and with me he said he doesn't know. i know he sounds desperate and wants to lose his virginity .. i told him i wanna keep my virginty & i dont wanna lose it during my high school years. i know it sounds so stupid but i actually believe every word he tells me .. i dont know if he`s lieing. im just a hopeless romantic. but yeah we talk`d on the phone earlier is when he told me .. i told him he`ll find out sooner or later .. so he said if i dont like you it mean it`s over right? i said sure i guess. he siad something " if we were the two people left in the world, would me and you hang out or make out? maybe i just liked you for making out .. " i know this is stupid. i might be stupid for believing freakin' word he tells me.

Answer 1

gurlie im sorry but i think you should dump him. i know what your feeling ( i just turned 15) but uhm....my ex boyfriend used to tell me constantly how hott he thought other gurls were. and it used to get me mad. turns out he cheated on me with lyke 10 or 15 other gurlz. it was bad and we only dated for 4 months. but if he really cared about you, he wouldnt say any of that to you even if he really didnt like you. he would be nice about it. he seems like a jerk and you can do much better. just please dont be hurt if he breaks up with you because you can enjoy being single for a little while and then youll eventually meet another guy that youll really like and chances are hell probably like you too! good luck and dont worry theres plenty of guys out there! <333 hope i helped! <333

Answer 2

You sound rather young and life can seem confusing due to a lack of any solid foundation of experience for you to turn to, to try to understand other people and their motives. You both are not on the same track. Realize this and let him find his goals in life, whatever they may be. If you at all, ever feel like the other person is not meeting you half-way, then follow that gut feeling and realize it is not a match. He is saying one thing, and you are saying another. I'd move on! Life is big. Life is large. You must focus on the big picture. It takes a while to learn who you really are and what you want in life. He is looking for who he is too. But I'd say he is being honest with you. He is yet wanting to sow those wild oats, and men need that a little stronger than us women. It's in their genes, believe it or not! Women are always more advanced, emotionally, than men, the same age. For awhile, men and women do go in different directions. In time, you'll become stronger out of knowing more about life, and who you really are. But don't compromise your own beliefs for someone else's beliefs. You need not make any sacrifices. True love doesn't work that way! Give yourself time, and give him space. He's on another path right now! And you are too! He's not fitting in with your ideals, so find someone who does! There are millions of people in this world, so don't fixate or waste your precious time and development. No woman need wait in line for any man! I'm sorry, it's equal, or it's not worth it! We all deserve respect, appreciation and consideration. I wouldn't throw away anymore of your own time talking to that dead end! Say ta-ta, boy toy! You've got more class girl! Hold your head high and don't look back!

Answer 3

First of all relax. He is a raging hormone so dont take anything too personally and please dont just believe everything he says because then your making yourself naive. You already set your rules about your sexuality and how long you want to maintain it. Stick with that and let him figure out what he's gonna do, whether its with someone else or you down the road. Be true to yourself cause if not you then who? Good luck and I hope this helps, and dont let anyone sway your judgement about something as important as your virginity.

Answer 4

I don't know. He sounds kind of shady to me. Why would he tell you, his gf, that he wants to "tap" other girls. That is really just immature and stupid if you ask me. ^_^ He doesn't really sound to reliable or responsible either for that matter. Maybe you should carry it on for a few more weeks though and see how it goes.

Good luck! ;-)

Answer 5

nicely why might you're taking your money back in case you wanted to verify him extraordinarily no longer telling him and he lost all of his money. he's in all probability thinking your sneaky and which you do no longer decide to verify him. he's in all probability thinking he cant have confidence you and that it isnt nicely worth it anymore because of the fact your enjoying video games. go away him on my own. wish this enables on your next courting :)

Answer 6

sounds to me like hes taking the high road and telling you that he just wants to use you.

You could be mad at the guy for not wanting you for more than a booty call, but you shouldnt be. Hes being straight forward, so he might care about you, but he doesnt want to be with you. He just wants you to be his buddy. Someone with easy access.

Answer 7

He doen't sound like the guy you should lose your virginity to. This should be with someone who loves and respects you, not someone who tells you he want to sex it up with others. You need to be careful and find someone who deserves you.

Answer 8

ummm sounds like hes wants to break up....

u deserve better.
move on

Answer 9

he is not serious about you. I would advise that you move on and treat him only as a friend. ;)

Answer 10

I would definitely leave that alone, hes a total slut!!!!