I met one person online.I had a lot online friends so it was nothing special and I didn't think I was doing something "bad".I liked to talk with him because he was different in some way, we excanged some pics. I wasn't physically attracted to him, generally he was pretty face but nothing more. His story he served was charming, he gave me some compliments, that flattered in a way, at the moment my relathionship was going through some bad phase (and my life in every other aspect) so I really needed someone to talk.He told me that he "was" drug addict but he's clean for some time,and begged me to send him some meds he cannot buy in his willage where he lives. First I didn't want to, but naive as I am,I felt I'm obligated to help him because we are "friends" so I did it.And he kept begging for more, so I realised he's using me!I kept this secret from my BF.My ego was hurt because when he found a GF and a new meds source we lost conntact. I feel guilt for having a secret and helping a jerk!
2007-03-10 17:04:38 · 10 answers · asked by stoika 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
My ego wasn't hurt he found a GF, but because I felt like the most naive person in the world (I guess I am). I done something behind my BF's back and when his GF showed up, he couldn't talk anymore! I love my boyfriend dearly, I can't forgive myself I was so naive. It's driving me crazy. How come I was so stupid?!?
I can't find a deffinition of adultery... Is it only having sex with someone else, or any "bond" with someone else? Sorry for stupid quesstions...
2007-03-10 17:12:12 · update #1
oh, yes and I bought meds regullary, we are not talking about some kind of "drugs" (except meds are drugs in a way :) )
2007-03-10 17:14:23 · update #2
It is not a sin, because you did what your heart told you wasn't wrong. But it is a mistake made, and its not all a loss, because once your heart has healed over this betrayal, you will come out all the wiser and should any friends or loved ones of yours, encounter such a case you would be able to empathise and help them before the pain of betrayal descends upon them like it did you... to save them the hurt.
We learn precious lessons from our failures and defeats as well, difference is, it just doesn't feel as good as lessons learned from victory :) Good luck... feel better.... and heal soon.
Add: Contrary to what some replies believe... DO NOT tell your boyfriend, you didnt do anything wrong, if you make it a big thing it WILL become a big thing. A personal friend of mine had a similar situation, ( she was a flight attendant with her fiance, but was seeing a colleague at the side, no sex just drinks and going out ) She was ridden with guilt, and she "came clean", a small issue became a big issue and within 3 months they were seperated, and an ugly seperation at that... Do NOT make the same mistake...
2007-03-10 17:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by Sheena 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Being friends with someone is not adultry ok? You are alowed to have friends of the opposit sex. So dont beat yourself up about that. unfortunately you really wanted to help his "friend" so you got sucked in by a druggie so what live and learn as we all do. Consider yorself lucky you had not met him in person and slept with him ( you could of risked catching HIV/AIDS) The only real thing you did wrong if you could label it as wrong is be naive enough to send drugs to an adict next time hopefully you will learn. forgive yourself and let it go and stop berating yourself - you only tried to help!!
2007-03-10 17:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was a sin in that you gave narcotics to someone that they were not prescribed to, which is against the law and harmful to the person physically. It sounds like you're sorry you did it, though, so repent and then follow your repentance with conviction. Don't just "say" you're sorry. BE sorry and never do such a thing again! Tell your boyfriend what happened.
As for the adultery part, Jesus says that just thinking about sex with another person is adultery (Matthew 5:28). If your contact with this guy never involved thoughts of having sex with him, you're probably OK. Otherwise it's a much more serious matter!
2007-03-10 17:12:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Romans 8:a million-2 subsequently, there is now no condemnation for people who're in Christ Jesus, (2) because of the fact by Christ Jesus the regulation of the Spirit of existence set me loose from the regulation of sin and dying. a million Timothy a million:15-17 right it particularly is a easy asserting that merits complete popularity: Christ Jesus got here into the international to save sinners—of whom i'm the worst. (sixteen) yet for that very reason i replaced into shown mercy so as that in the time of me, the worst of sinners, Christ Jesus could reveal his endless endurance as an occasion for people who could have self belief on him and get carry of eternal existence. (17) Now to the King eternal, immortal, invisible, the only God, be honor and glory with no bring about sight. Amen.
2016-11-24 19:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by guiterrez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your good nature was taken advantage of. Don't condemn yourself.....that is a sin. Rom. 8:1 There is therefore now no condemnation to those which are in Christ Jesus. Forgive yourself.
God Bless You,
Daniel
2007-03-10 17:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by Third Day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's certainly one that can be forgiven. The sin is that you did something unlawful, but clearly your intentions were not criminal. It was surely a mistake. One I hope you learned from.
2007-03-10 17:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you might want to sacrifice a calf for that
2007-03-10 17:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by manna eater 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"Everybody lies". -- Gregory House, M.D.
You should remember that always. :)
2007-03-10 17:44:40 · answer #8 · answered by lycan_888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a drug dealer and God hates you!!
2007-03-10 17:11:40 · answer #9 · answered by evr_mohr 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sin? no
Mistake? I think so...
2007-03-10 17:10:36 · answer #10 · answered by XX 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋