Our daughter is 1 and sadly we realized we weren't right for each other.
2007-03-10 16:34:57 · 6 answers · asked by ari_anna_26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Now you all have to be mature enough to know that you all are still going to have to deal with each other for at least the next 18 years. It is in the best interest of your daughter that you all get along for her sake.
Since you know that the relationship is not right for you, now change your focus and figure out what is the best relationship for your precious daughter.
Wish you the best of luck...
2007-03-10 16:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Brown Eyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, call me old fashioned, but shouldn't you know that BEFORE you two have a child together?!
I think that unless he is a cheater, drug dealer, child molester, criminal, etc. try and make it work. This is about the baby you created, not just you and him. I'm not saying be unhappy, but you can't just give up because you "aren't right" for each other. Perhaps if you two work out your problems/differences, you may find the love is not gone. So many people give up on marriage, relationships, etc because it's now accepted in society to just walk away and find someone new. That's not doing anything for the children of future and current generations.
If it's truly over, then focus on being a good parent for your child. Get back into life doing things that make YOU happy. Join a gym. Take a class. See a counsellor to talk to. Make sure he stays in the child's life. Fathers are important.
Good luck!
2007-03-10 16:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by reginachick22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..lets not get into the problem..but if you must split then ..Think of it this way..Just because the guy is a sperm donor doesn't make him a father. If he is a good guy and wants to see the kid then just let him..you'll need the help! The other stuff will just work out!! There are plenty of guys ..me for one that the kid won't matter..My wife had three girls when I married her..Just be careful not to place that ahead of yourself and any new romance. If your not happy you can't pretend to be a happy parent to the child!!
2007-03-10 16:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by Dark Knight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time, time, and more time. I have been divorced from the father of my child for about a year. I am still lonely, but I do not want to be with him. I started going back to school, work more, have fun, after enough time you can date (I recommend very casually). It's OK.
2007-03-10 16:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by MJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you could treat each other with care and respect it will go along way to help your daughter good luck and be the best parent you can
2007-03-10 16:39:33 · answer #5 · answered by focused on the positive 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start by enjoying your more time that you have with yourself and your child, and you will learn to live without a man. Find things you like to do, as far as pamper yourself, and child. Its his loss...
2007-03-10 19:41:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋